I mean i know i can't really do anything about this situation, but i just feel so helpless and when we have our long pauses on the phone (long silences) i get worried because shes in such an emotional state of mind right now, when i dont say anything i feel put on the spot. I just dont knowwhat to do and its driving me crazy not being able to be therw for her now.... help...someone?
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I mean i know i can really do anything ?
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Hi joshita, welcome to A2A.
Being there for her on the phone is very much something. Don't be afraid of the long silences. It's not necessary to fill every minute with talk. If the silences go on too long you can always ask if you can ring again later. If she says "Don't go!" you know she still wants the contact regardless of the silence.