i was talkin to my GF and she sed wen we have sex for the first time, she want me to cum more than once, and last a long time, im a virgin, and i feel a lot of pressure to be multiorgasmic and a sex machine now, lol, what if i cant cum twice or i dont last hours like she probly wants?? these are all the thing i worry about now, any advise from girls or guys?!?
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Pressure from my girl
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Your g/f doesn't really understand how things work. Very few of us can ejaculate twice and or multiorgasmic. Sure, after some recovery time we can go again, but we certainly aren't able to shoot twice without losing an erection, while there may be some, its rare. Being a virgin isn'ta problem bud, we all start sometime....its unfortunate though that she is putting so much pressure on you...its already pressure enough because we sure have high expectations for ourselves that first time. Rarely is it something great and often things don't work out at all...simply too much pressure and nerves...we work so hard at it being perfect that it often isn't. Does she know you are a virgin? If not, you guys need to talk about that. And you need to ask her to back off a bit and not expect so much. Sex takes two people working together to make it really good, she may need to have some patience with you as your equipment gets used to all the new stimulation and excitment.... And if things don't work like you think they should..don't worry about it man, happens to all of us from time to time. Main thing to focus on is that YOU know it works, if you can get an erection and masturbate to ejaculation without problems, it's working fine! Please feel free to keep in touch, ask other questions or chat with us more about this. But remember its your body and you have control over when things happen and how they happen.
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tell your gf that you'll try your best and she should be happy that you're her first no offence, but your gf sounds a bit shallow...
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yeah she knows im a virgin, shes has this fastenation wit cum, and she wants to taste it so bad, which i have NO objections to, cuz thats hott as fuck, lol, but thanx for the advise guys, and shes not shallow, she just want our first time to be FUN, and so do i, i have been doing stop and go masturbation, ive gone a half hour, and after that i always get too close to the point of no return and fuck it up, lol. im keep practicin and hopefully i can controll my orgasms enuff to last a long time
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Is your girl on birth control? If not she should look into it.
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If you can go half an hour with vaginal sex, you will have lasted a much much longer time than most guys.
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LOL. Sounds like she needs to wake up to reality....Unless ofcourse you told her that you are a multiorgasmic sex machine, then you brought it upon yourself
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The first time isn't supposed to be fun, it's all about being Akward, uncomfortable, and weird for you both (assuming you are both virgins)