What's the big deal about age difference?

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I hear so many times people will be like "he or she is what age? Why are you dating someone so much older or younger?" I don't understand what the big deal is. I know some people who act young for their age and others who act old for their age. What I really find funny though is if the guy looks a lot younger and lies about his age there isn't a problem.The reason i bring this up is because for many years (starting at age 18) my dating life was really bad. I was broke, didn't have much self-esteem, didn't know that many women, etc. I just didn't attract women. Now my life has changed drastically and I attract women. If I date women my own age, they're all into getting married, they like to stay at home all the time, are boring, typical dull adults. I still have lots of energy and am attracted to energetic college students. Maybe it's because that's an age group i missed out on? I don't know. I just think as long as you're not dating underage women it shouldn't be that big of deal.-Perry

either way, you should feel more comfortable with a dead woma00n in bed with you than any live one of any age

i dont see the pioont in this age diffrence thing unless the boy or girl is very very young then i dont see a problem

How old are you?

Lets say your under age going out with someone in their 30's or summit. In the laws eyes there peadophiles. Once your legal, unless you already are i dunno then you can do whoever you want but if ur under age even if it seems innocent if the pigs find out it could pretty much ruin his life.

pigs? You wanna know what PIG means?Pride Integrity and Guts3 things you'll never have in your life.loser.

One of my really good friends is 17 and she's with a guy that's 25. I don't mind the age thing, it's just that the guy she's with is divorced and has a kid. Not to mention he's a COP, PIG, DOUGHNUT EATER, and whatever else you wanna call em'. Plus it's statatory (spelling) rape till she's 18. Smells like trouble to me.

The cop should know better, and what makes a 17 year old attracted to this "catch" anyway?

Supposedly, she says he's really "hot". I think she's kind of messed up right now. She broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years recently, so maybe she's just using him as a pick me up. But it's all f*cked up.

age is nothing but a number...there are plenty of 17 year old high schoolers that are a hell of a lot more mature then the 20-23 year girls that I hang with...they act like they are 5...Just gotta look beyond the age sometimes and ask yourself...does she act older then her age?! Thats the real question...dont go to low tho...15,ehhh I dont think so lol.

I'm with you on that ODNation. Age is just a number. But heaven forbid you happen to be a guy who is more mature than his age. It becomes very difficult to find a suitable match then because you have to find an older girl who is willing to go out with a younger guy. Thats tough when you are young, but fortunately the maturity gap closes out as you get older.

Age dosn't really matter to me.. I have checked out 13yo's and 25yo's.. So it dosn't really matter to me..

well, like I said, the age thing didn't bother me that much. It's just the situation where the cop dude is divorced and has a kid while having sex with a girl that can be cosidered statatory (spelling) rape. It's pretty messed up.

Significantly younger girls, while they might be cute in their own ways, are also typically less confident, less experienced, and less mature. I guess I see a younger woman-older man relationship as more likely to drift into inequality. Yes, this is a total generalization, and isn't always true, but I've seen it happen all too often with my friends...In my experience, older woman take less shit (which is good for me, because I can often be an argumentative and opinionated bastard ), are better in bed, better conversationalists, and better able to get along with my friends (male and female). Of course, there's nothing wrong, per se, with dating younger.

same here but i guess having a child young i have to be kinda more mature than most people my age lol when i have to anyways lol

Hmm, that is weird because most of the time females mature faster than males. So wouldn't it be more natural for it to be an older male and younger female.

How about a male and female who are close to the same age? Most of the girls I tend to try to get with are around a year to 3 years of age to mine.

In reply to: Why do you think girls (especially high schoolers) want to date older guys??? That goes with what I thought, so I totally agree with you.Although (and I'm just referring to myself on this one) I feel a lot more mature than most of the girls my age (17).

Yeah, I can certainly see the maturity thing (girls maturing faster than guys). I still wouldn't date significantly younger (I'm a male), but that's just a preferance.

OOOOOOOoooooh Kay! Here we go!!! I just found out last night that my best friend is dating a 28 (turning 29 in March) year old cop who is still married and has 2 kids!!! I don't know what the hell she's thinking, but she's only 17.In this case I have to say that age does f*ckin matter dammit!And yes, if you caught my previous posts about this same situation, this post doesn't match with them. I had a long talk with her last night and got some truthful details, and some other details I didn't want to know.

hmmm... i dunno.. i dont like older guys.. like 20 y/os .. and im 16.. thing is.. i have a thing for my friend.. who is 17.. and his younger brother who is 15... Im so confused with it :confused: