What's the big deal about age difference?

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I don't know about everyone else, but I can't share in that way.

they always get mad whenever i suggest it

heheh, i wouldn't get mad.

you mean if i suggested to this guy to have a 3some with his brother...?

hes what i did... i asked some guys what they would say if i asked them to have a 3some with them and their brother.. heres it..edgeman says:tell u to go fuck ur self- Osmoso - says:id just say no, then think about fucking you(40)Schade(40)You mean the world to me you whitney says:i would say dont talk to me ever again lolSeb - Forgotten after 20 minutes...sad really. says:i would say no. cause my brother is gross...and i dont go for 2 guys 1 girl threesomes. I Dont Wanna Come Back Down From This Cloud says:nope I Dont Wanna Come Back Down From This Cloud says:thats sickMatt says:if they were up to itMatt says:i probably wouldand the older brother said... Higgz says:no i wouldnt

Websexinfo says: I wouldn't have sex with you if another guy was there. But I would if it were just the 2 of us pink.

that is the case with a lot of girls.

Guys are very different. We are brought up to keep our emotions on this inside and to keep up this macho extertior. If we are naked we are being exposed and its symbolic for the emotional vulnerablity we have. At least thats my take on it.

Guess I am an old fashion type of guy. Whenever I see a couple with a big age difference, I can't help but wonder if it is a trophy wife or a boy-toy.But to each their own ....

That's not always true. My b/f is 15 years my senior and he in no way treats me as a trophy that's his to claim, own, throw or order around. He knows I have an opinion about things and I have my own beliefs about certain things and he listens to them, me, my ideas, etc. readily. And HE is not my boy toy. A relationship with someone is built on love and trust not just sexually driven factors. My b/f is divorced, has two kids, and he and I have a pretty big age gap but you know something? It doesn't bother me and it doesn't bother him. So why it bothers other people I don't understand because they're not in the room sleeping with us. My own opinion is "get over it. It's not your life. I do what I want because I'm an adult." And it makes my blood pressure rise when I hear people talking about how mucher younger he/she is then her/him. What business is it of anyone elses except a parent if the child is underage???

In reply to: What business is it of anyone elses except a parent if the child is underage??? sounds familiar

He's a big part of my life. It upsets me that people think they should have this big say so over how other people's lives. People with big age gaps used to get married all the time and they wonder why women still like older men. Older men are more likely to have stable jobs and be able to provide a better life (just an observation to all you young guys) and older men are usually looking to settle down and not just have fun. Younger guys are more prone to wanting to just fool around, not settle down. They're also more likely to be unable to provide a home and etc....But guy want to know why girls closer to their age like older men. I like my boyfriend because he's funny, smart, has a great attitude and outlook about life in general AND the fact that he has a steady job and can support himself and that he's NOT living with his mother is a plus. There's nothing wrong with an age difference. It's just a number. It wasn't meant to be the measure of anything important. I'm done w'my "rampage" now. I was just a "little" irked.

They can be taught! :smile: Thank you No1Sexpot. I'll be completely honest, my boyfriend had a problem with our age difference before I even knew he was interested. When he started flirting with me and stuff, I told my parents. I wasn't sure if I could handle dating an older guy. But he grew on me and I realized it's not age that matters, it's the compatability, compassion, trust, passion, and love you have for the other person. And I have all of those for and with my boyfriend (whose name I don't use because I don't think he'd like it...lol). He's honestly the one person whose opinion I don't know how I lived w/o.

Older guys are definitely better. More mature and stable in life.

Yes they are. 100% agreed.

Sorry to but into the female conversation that's going on here. But you all should remember there are always exceptions in life and there are some younger guys out there that can give you more than older guys can.

uh.......huh. :wink:

What you say is true whereby older men may be more financially secure and mentally stable. But what about the men in their "mid-life crisis"; having affairs with girls at the same age as their daughters? When a man starts poaching his daughters friends just to tell the world, "Hey, I'm still virile!", do you think that is right?A few years ago, my neighbour, a 37 year old single mother, started dating a 18 year old boy her daughter used to hang out with. As dating an older woman is every teenage boy's fantasy, he went back and told her daughter, "Hey, I'm doing your Mom!". Now the mother and daughter are estranged. Usually it is not the "poacher" or the"cougar", but the innocent person gets hurt.

Does anyone watch the OC???? Luke and Marissa's mom looks like they're about to hook up!!!

Websex - I understand but the thing is I've dated guys my age and they've been very immature. One hit me (yep..only once..I'm no push over and if you hit me..I'm outta there), several cheated on me, most were just boys who thought they were men but in the end it turned out they were just "children".Mouse - You're not suggest that my boyfriend is going through his mid-life are you? Not all men go through those. Do I think that particular scenario would be okay to carry out? Not really. Using someone for sex just to make yourself feel adequate isn't right. However, if you're of legal age and you're consenting it's all up to you. It's none of my business.As I've previously said, age is just a number. It was meant for nothing more than to tell how long you've been around. It shouldn't matter how old someone is. What matters are how they make you feel inside? My boyfriend makes me like a new person every day. He makes me want to be better.