I didnt want to bring up another post and add alot, so i searched the forums and i came across a couple threads that answered my question, i always came across osmeone saying when you feel yourself about to cum to stop and start fondling your partner. How can this be done without them being all mad or anything ? I also have another question... The girls in my grade are immature....not physically but mentally and i dont think any of them will understandstuff like stopping, i wonder if it is something i have to wait out for them to gain maturity (mentally) or is it something that can be set off into there minds.Thanks alot in advance.
About lasting longer....
You're so right....stopping can be quite frustrating to your partner. Sex just takes some practice and while sometimes you'll go off pretty quick, other times take longer. I'd suggest that you take a look at the lefthand side of this page and click on the green topic....premature ejaculation. There are some things you can do physically and mentally to slow things down a bit.