Well earlier today my girlfriend asked me if I would kiss her, and I said noo cause ive only been going out with her for like a week and the she got all pissed at me and went over and started talking to her friends and then they started coming over to badger me about it and they want to know why, so i told them, and then they were like so, you could have least held her hand and i said i didnt feal like it cause of something that happened earlier that day, so then they keep on hastling me about it andsomehow it gets to me going over to talk to her, but im an independent guy, I watch my own back, so they go and tell her that so now there like all mad at me and stuff and I dont think she realizes that i have my own life and everywhere i turn her or her friends are standing there, well sorry for the build up but i just wanted to know if you guys think its really worth all this trouble, should i stay with her or dump her ass in the dumps???
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I need a bit of help ...
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I would say that you have to remind her that you are going out with her and not her friends. If that doesn’t work at all, then, as it doesn’t sound as though you are very happy with this girl I would suggest you leave her. Try and work something out between you first though.
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I don't see why there would be a problem with kissing her or holding her hand. I guess I can see how you don't want her friends in your face though. I guess that's how the younger crowd of dating goes. Is there any chance of you talking to her seriously? Don't tell her you're independent, but just say that you don't really like having her friends in your business all the time and that you especially dislike confrontation.If you do break up with her it won't be much of a loss considering you're 13. When I was 13 it was fun time with my guy friends all the time and I had a blast.
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:frowning: she and her friend were really really mean to day, i tried to talk to her but she wouldn't listen :frowning:
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Pull her aside. Don't confront her in front of her friends. Especially at that age group there's a big "girl power" thing going. Tell her that it's her you care about and that you respect her friends but you don't appreciate them in your business. You guys don't seem to be on the same page and usually BF/GF wouldn't be that way around each other.
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honestly, i would cut your losses and move on. what you describe is wrong on so many levels. find yourself a nice girlfriend who respects you and doesn't need her friends to be part of your relationship.
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Pull her aside. Don't confront her in front of her friends. Especially at that age group there's a big "girl power" thing going. Tell her that it's her you care about and that you respect her friends but you don't appreciate them in your business. You guys don't seem to be on the same page and usually BF/GF wouldn't be that way around each other.
I know, i said i tried to talk to her but she wouldnt listen to me at all
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She sounds typical for that age. I say give her the boot.
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oh my god, im sorry to say but this girl sounds so young and immature, she clearly as no idea how relationships work, id be firm with her, tell her to keep stuff that goes on in your relationship between the two of you or get rid of her, i think you would be better off without her anyway, she needs to grow up!!!!!! -
its over, apparently she was cheating on me but I got a call a week ago when i was sick and the person said she was hanging all over my best friends x-gf's x-bf
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Heh, what a.....sorry, I'll restrain my language. Don't worry, she wasn't worth your time, Dude.
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I know, and when i dumped her i didnt want to be mean but um, my demonic nature came out and I said some harsh shit, but if that dude CJ wants to go out with her let him, its his loss, besides, i can get another girlfriend by next friday
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Sorry I didn't catch that, Panda.And yes, she got what she deserves.