hahaha yea kinda lol. I'm not saying that it wouldn't stop bullying, i believe it would completely...well with the exception of some gym teachers who enjoy picking on the kids as much as the kids themselves. but anways, what i was saying is that its impossible to have someone supervise it. All it would take is one kid who didn't like the teacher and that teacher would be fired in seconds.
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Scared of school showers?
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this is a lil off subject.... but once in my freshman year in college I went to take a shower ( in a communal shower) and once I got in there the only other guy in there was jacking off. i stopped in awe of catching some one else masterbating. he simply replied, "it's better to do it here than in my bed and have to change sheets" I simply agreed and continued to shower. so erections, dick size and everything else is just irrelivant in a communal shower. i'm there to get clean anything else is not my concern!
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Yeah...gotcha. I see what you're saying. That whole liability thing is crazy. Especially in a situation like that. A grown man "supervising" a bunch of naked boys is almost just asking for it. I'm a counselor at a Catholic school and I have to be very careful. And the sad thing is, I would NEVER think of hurting any of the kids at school, but my concern is making sure I'm not in a position where I can be accused of something I didn't do.
It's a crazy world...
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That's just screwed up! Not that he was jacking off in the shower, or even that he got caught. But that he casually continued while you were in there. That boy has some serious boundary issues.Did you not think that you should come back later? Didn't it feel wierd showering with a guy beating off next to you? You KNOW he was looking at you!
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in our school its not required, but i still do anyways. And i was a little shy about it tho at first since im a freshmen and everyone around me was a junioir and senior, lol.
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wow tho. a guy wackin off next to you in the shower? that would make me a little uneasy. But whatever floats ur boat.
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In PE or gym, they only make us change into a uniform so we only see each others boxers. But you make a good point, in my summer school we had to change to go swimming and many people covered their dicks, including me. Some didnt but now I am old enough to realze its not a big deal.
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We had to take showers from 7th grade on. I was just almost always the only uncut guy in the locker room and I got teased. I also played team sports and i was alot more comfortable showering with my teammates.
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big dicks,short dicks,long dicks,fat dicks and small dicksdicks that climb on rocks
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My school never has to take showers, but we do have to change in front of each other.. which isnt all that bad.
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the funy thing is after PE ou dick looks even smaller cos all of the blood has been drawn to other places in the body where it is needed hehe lolz.but ontopic. i never showered with all of thosee guys together. i used a seperate shower, fortunately we just had one. but the reason behind that was my religion not cos i feel shy, ( i might have if i would have considered the option of showering with all those guys)
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I hated group showers after PE in high school. I did everything I could to avoid it but it was part of our grade and required.
That is one creepy PE teacher you have. Taking a shower is part of your grade? what's he grading you on, if you take a shower or if you wash behind your ears? i've never had to take a shower in school, and i guess at the time I would have had a problem with it. But when i go to the gym now I just don't care. I strip go into the steam room, take a good steam, then take a shower. I don't get why males are so uptight about their bodies. we all have penis' and they all pretty much look the same.
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Hey bud, that was a very long time ago and it was creepy. They took off 3 points everyday we didn't shower. Sucked, but the way it was. Oh if I knew then what I do now. I'm all over that body image crap these days, go to the gym, comfortable naked around other guys, do the shower thing and all of that with no concerns. Just wasn't OK in HS for sure.
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Sounds familiar, Lance. Not showering as much as not "dressing out" in proper uniform both counted off.
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It's not about size, for me at least. I'm just scared that I'll get a boner and everyone will assume I'm some "faggot". I'm straight, but if I see ANYONE naked, girl or guy, I automatically get a boner. I can't help it.
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yeah after my crew practice about half of the guys shower, i only do if i am really sweaty. but the showers are all together.
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Liamcny: In effect, by being teased in the locker room because of your intact status you were being sexually harrassed and bullied. The experience should have been reported to the authorities. Better yet, the school administration should have long ago instituted a mandatory anti-bullying program, designed to expose the truth about bullies and bullying, while also giving each individual the resources and the strength to withstand and deflect such cruelty. The remarkable thing about such programs is that they are very successful in reforming bullies, themselves, by exposing their inherent weakness of character to everyone. These programs are remarkable for the number of former bullies who apologize in front of their peers.Without such programs, the individual is left to his own resources. Unfortunately, few people, young or old, possess an inner core of character sufficient to withstand the blows. Thus it is particularly painful to witness a victim of bullying who, head bowed, submits to the blows, whether they be real or metaphorical. Too often do these individuals become bullies in their turn, as they force the same behaviour on those who are younger and weaker than they. Witness the fellow who was bullied into mutilating his genitals who proposes to mutilate the genitals of his children!I'd suggest that the way to freedom and self-respect lies not in giving in to ignorance and prejudice, but in fighting and overcoming the forces which assault us unfairly. We only have the rest of our lives to live, and if we cannot live with ourselves, as God made us, with whom can we live?Korydon
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For one thing, HOW IN THE WORLD do the gym teachers actually know if you take a shower. Especially if the gym teacher is a woman???? All youde have to do is wet your hair. My school is kinda a poor school and and you have to at least change your shorts for gym, but they could care less about showers. Plus my gym teachers a woman, and im in high school
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I hated taking showers in front of other guys when I was younger. Our school stopped the practice because it was so humiliating.
