If anyone here can think of anyway to help me I would greatly appricate it; I have a sexual addiction problem; I need to have sex @ least 4 times per day and I also get sorta like hot flashes throughout the day seeing attractive women & I feel as if I'm going to pass out sex or the act of sex has put me in EXTREMELY BAD posistions & I have made some horrible decsisons to satisfy my need for sex throughout my life & me and my girl started having unprotected sex around 8 months ago we try to use a condom but we either end up taking it off or not using it at all (she ) my girl thinks I use sex to escape my emotions and she may be right all I know is I cannot stop & when I try to hold out for even a day I get real bad like depressed & sometimes very irritable to the point of violence I never hit or raped my girl or anything of that nature but I've yelled @ her sometimes because we can't have sex or she it to sore from what we have already done... Can anyone please tell me in my assumption that I am in fact a sex addicit & if so what I can do about it without gettin garrested for hlaf the shit I already did.
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Help Me Please/SEXUAL ADDICTION!!!!!!!!!!!
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you sound to me like a normal teen loli think you just need to try and put your mind on to something else besides sex as it sounds like it can get outta control. Just relax a bit more or keep yourself busy get a new hobbie or something.
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Well I would go with that but I'm 20 and I've had this problem of needing sex since I was about 5 or 6 & I mean when I say bad situations it goes WAY beyond the normal teen thing but I appricate your advice
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your just a horney bugger then aint ya just get a hobbie or somthing i dont really think anyone can help u but yourself luv
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well if its something to do with ur emotions and so on, maybe try seeing a psychologist?? OR! u kno there r those kind of sex doctors ppl... or sex therapists i think.... serioualy, might be worth a try
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Sex is a natural male comfort thing (I've seen a documentary in which a lion who had an altercation with another lion relieved his tension by immediately having sex with a lioness), so the first thing I wonder is if you are having trouble coping with the stress of daily life and its worries and emotions. It's possible that if you can find other ways to relax the need for sex may become more manageable.
It may be that you have an extremely high sex drive, in which case you either have to learn to deal with it, or take medication to lower it. Such medication is available on prescription.
If your need for sex is making you do illegal or bad things, or there is a good chance it may in the future, you need to take this very seriously. There are AA-type programs for sex addicts, but I think a specialist psychiatrist might be better.
Can I ask why you take the condom off? -
If you've been having unprotected sex for the past 8 months and she aint pregnant i'd think there is summit wrong with ya manhood, ya lil' fellas swimmin the wrong way?
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it does sound like you're a sex addict, but maybe you should try to keep yourself busy with something else. That's just a home remedy though. I recommend going to a program or something.
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Well as far as hobbies I do have a lot I am invoved in computer networking as well as buisness admin. for several place in my college; I write poems play basketball I'ts ujst sed is like hurting my life or I shold say the lack of control of it b/c there have been SEVERAL times in which I didn't want to have sex or do a sexual act & the needing of sex got the best of me it was alomst like I didn't have a choice I had to have sex
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i know this is off topic, but computer networking, eh??? That's kool, I'm a network tech.
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Hmm, i know what u mean. Sex addiction is like any other addiction, its not just that u want it lots (ie ur horny)just as alcoholics dont just drink coz they're thirsty. You have to understand sex addiction by comparing it to other addictions...shopping, drugs, alcohol. When a person who is alcohol dependent has a bad day, they reach for a drink. Sex addicts use sex. They need sex, it's their way of dealing. I know this coz I'm one myself. I've always needed to use sex, and i can NOT turn down sex without feeling realllly reallly irritable, angry and emotional. From a pretty young age, if i was really upset, id find someone to give head to and feel heaps better. I've always been a very sexual person and finds this dominates my thoughts pretty often. I'm just starting to search for info on sexual addiction. If i find anything to help u, I'll let u know. By the way, sexual addiction doesn't mean u r promiscuous, ppl seem to assume that.
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Ya, Im a Networking guy too .. weird! I guess there are alot of tech nerds in this thread HAHA