Hey, new guy here, need some help..............I think I am suffering erectile dysfunction...........but cant work out if its a physical or pyscological problem.......a main physical thing i have noticed is that, unless my penis is as hard as it can get, i can bend it up and around.......is that rite??,........can other men here bend theres up while semi-hard or a little harder??.........i think i may have "broken" my penis sumhow......but cant remember doing it.......when i get as hard as i can get.......if i push in on my penis it still bends up a little bit............can this be treated??, do i have broken cells that can be healed or sumthin??I do have trouble passing urine when others are around, known as "shy bladder", and had my prostrate tested and the doc said it was ok.........my blood test came back good, and i have decent testosterone level.............but my libido and sex drive seems to be rite down........the last 3 times i tried sex with new girlfriend I have got an erection, but not quite hard enuff for penetration.Also, i have tried anal masturbation...........to those who have tried it, is it normal to feel a burning sensation after?? it also burns after i pee sumtimes too, and visited the doctor because for a while i was getting white discharge from my penis (not semen) just as my urine flow started to finish.Im seeing a uroligist within 8 weeks, but want answers asap............I especially dont want to lose my girl over the erection problem..............so pls help.Thanks
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Penis bends in...!..?
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nobody can help???.........does anyone know about PD??, ive heard that scared tissue cause the penis to bend, i did have surgery when i was a little kid cus it use to burn wen i went wee..............only thing is, wen i am erect, the penis looks straight as an arrow, and only pushes in (like it folds up) when a pressure is added........this makes penetration hard because i have to be as hard as i can be, and i have problems with that........i usually get hardest before i cum, when i get sensations in my penis, but thats no good cus i dont wanna be all rerady to ejaculate as soon as i penetrate..........pls help
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Hi problem_child2, welcome to AfraidToAsk.Despite what porn stories say about "rock-hard" or "steel-hard", erect penises are always a bit flexible, and have to be, because we now know the vagina is curved and the penis has to bend a bit to follow the curve. We only found that out by MRI imaging - you can't feel it. So a little flexibility is expected, and especially at the base. (Otherwise sex positions would be much more limited.)However, if you are finding it difficult to be hard enough for penetration, it does sound like there is some sort of problem. There are a lot of possible reasons, which your urologist will need to explore. One possibility is diabetes, but that's only one of many possibilities. The operation could mean your blood system is a bit leakier than normal, but it's hard to say. Are you on any medication? Some anti-depressants in particular cause reduction in libido and performance. (And so can depression itself.)Shy bladder is common, and shouldn't be a factor. However, a white discharge that isn't semen isn't normal, and suggests some sort of infection - gonorrhoea is one possibility - were you tested for it?It sounds like you have a lot to discuss with you urologist. Make sure you tell him/her as much as you can.
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thanks for the reply, its good to know somebody is listening. :smile:.
i did have a urine test for the white discharge, but that came back normal, i was put on some pills for a week to take care of urine tract infection (which the doc said i didnt have, but took them just to be sure while i was waiting for the urnie results)........also wat is gonorrhoea, is it a STD?, if so then theres no chance i could have that.............i did have a blood test a while back.........if i had diabetes surely this would of shown up??, as i went to the doctors before and complained of feeling tired and less-motivated......so they must of checked for diabetes and they said my testosterone/hormones balance was ok.
I'm not on any medication............about 5 years ago i was on a course of pills for acne, and i took them for about 2 years running, but have been off them for 3 years.......I'm 20 btw...........generally i am quite healthy, havnt been ill for a while, do fair share of excersise..........which is why its hard to work out why sumtimes i feel like doing nothing and feel tired......
so to add on to what you was saying about rock hard-erections.........is it normal that when there is blood inside the penis and im half-erect, lets say 50%-75%, that my penis can still bend up, like it can fold, so it makes like a 'U' type shape??, does this happen to you?.........could it be that my corpus cavernosum are too weak and flexible?
thanks in advance
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That white discharge is strange, if you didn't have gonorrhoea (it is indeed an STD) or a urinary tract infection.
I'm not sure about being able to make a U shape when 50-75% erect. I suppose it depends on the definition of 50% or 75%.
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just noticed sumthing, i got a hard erection a a lil while bak..........i was looking at it and under the skin i noticed like rings going around my shaft, there was like 3 of them, spaced out, couldnt feel them, but as the skin went back and forth i could clearly see them..............anyone know what they could be?, or if they are supose to be there.........is this a sign scared tissue?, i read sumthing about that while reading about PD......lol, it sounds bad....but any guy readin get an erection and chek for rings around the shaft, and chek bak here with any rersults, aswell as info on this if u have any.Thanx
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anybody got any info on this...^^
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I haven't heard of having three rings. Scar tissue is usually only on one side.
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could it just be vains.......or could it be breaks/fractures in the shaft?
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Im sorry that I cant help you, but I hope you find out whatever it is! That sounds like a real problem, and I hope someone else can help you!
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A fractured penis (caused by getting in a kink in it when hard) would have a sharp bend in it, and hurt on erection - I don't think you could have one and not know it. Veins are normally on the surface and visible, but perhaps it's possible.
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yea its a wierd one, i havnt come across anything on the net about it.......i dont think it is fractured.......but maybe its like ridges were it makes it leak blood, wer the shaft has weak points, maybe that would explain why it bends up wen pressure is added.......its driving me crazy, and im losing sex drive more and more, to be tested for diabetes, do u have to have a different test then just a normal routine blood test??, my dad has been diagnosed with it recently, and ive read that it can lead to weaker erections if not taken care of......also, when you go to see an uroligist........are you only seen for what has been prepared and wat was in the doctors note, or can you tell them extra stuff and be checked for other things in the same appointment aswell??..........reason i ask is because i was refered twice............1. for finding it hard to void and a slight burning (propitus) i think its called.........and 2. for the erection problems..........i have an appointment coming up for the propitus thing, and my other appointment hasnt been confirmed yet...........this was due to seeing 2 different doctors at around the same time.........so let me know........thanks again
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Diabetes can be detected by a urine test, though a blood test is more accurate. For routine testing they just dip a test paper into your urine.I don't know what the strict rules are, but so long as you're not turning a brief appointment into a very long one, there shouldn't be a problem with mentioning the other difficulty. In fact you should mention it anyway, because you should give the urologist the full set of symptoms, even ones you don't think are relevant.