Here's how to tell if you are homo-, bi-, or hetero-sexual.1. Would you be happy to marry someone the same sex as you (not just for the sex)?2. Would you be happy to marry someone from the opposite sex as you (not just for the sex)? Both of these should be answered taking for granted that there would be no stress of wedding planning/money problems/time and energy problems/anything else that would prevent you from wanting to get married.If you answered number 1 "yes" and number 2 "no" you are homosexual.If you answered number 1 "no" and number 2 "yes" you are heterosexual.If you answered both 1 and 2 "yes" you are bisexual.If you answered both 1 and 2 "no", well than, maybe you're just not interested in a relationship right now.If you like looking at the genatilia (private parts) of the same sex, or you fanasize about the same sex, you are not necisarilly gay or bi. There are a number of reasons why you would do this. During puberty, your hormones are raging with the power of lemons. This may cause some abnormal thoughts. You may just be curious, or maybe sick of seeing the same-old-same-old stuff.If you are a male, and you stick things into your anus and enjoy doing this, this is definetly NOT something to judge gayness by. Most men will think this enjoyable, but are not willing to admit it because of what other people will think. It feels good because of the prostate gland that aids in the production of semen can be massaged by inserting things into your ass far enough up. For some reason, this feels good to most males.Also, if you don't think you're gay, then you're probly not. I beleive you have to accept it to make it true.
First, I know gay men who do not engage in anal sex--oral and mutual masturbation only. I was never one of them, but I have met several.Second, the desire to marry has no bearing whatsoever on being gay. I know quite a few guys and gals who are married to their sexual opposite, but in fact, are quite gay. Some are bisexual, but that has little to do with genes or environment...it has to do with choice and appreciation for the human form.I enjoy sex with men and women, but prefer women. One of my closest friends is gay and though he engages in sex with his wife, he does it more out of love for her than for personal or mutual gratification. He lusts after me and other men, not his wife. But he married his wife because he loves her and wanted to have children with her.My wife knows about my sexual preferences and understands that I have an unusual appreciation for the human form, male and female. She has no doubt, nor do I, that I am attracted to her more than men, but the fact remains that I find strong sexual attraction to some men as well.Your generalized statements about marriage are ignorant at best. Your bit about sticking things in a guy's anus is almost placebic in nature, as the raw feeling of another man's pulsing member in your rectum is nothing like any toy or other object, and can never be mistaken for the other. Men who engage in anal sex with other men enjoy the closeness, the animalistic nature of the experience, the dominance and submission. Simply sticking a dildo up your ass does not make you gay or bi.Gay is nature, bi is choice.