I'm the girlfriend of a sex addict and I'm not sure what to do to help him. We have been together for 2yrs and have been having sex for 1yr. Now it's to the point we're we will argue all night long if I don't want to have sex or just not in the mood. He basically won't let me sleep until we have sex. It's not like I don't enjoy it or anything I'm just not sure what to do. I want to help him get through this. He's always looking at porn whether on the computer or DVD. And now wants a 3some and I truly believe it's just to have sex with another woman...I just need some advice on what to do. Thank you.
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Help I'm the Girlfriend of a Sex Addict
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If you truly think he's addicted to sex then it must be treated like any other addiction. Perhaps he needs help through a therapist.Threesomes are known to destory relationships, so I would avoid going that route if you are interested in continuing your relationship with him.
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Do you know of any sites that may help?
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This may help you to get started.http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Sex/Site/transcripts/sexual_addiction.htm
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why do you stay with a guy like this who just wants sex out of you and other women?
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Truefully he doesnt just want sex from me, Hes a great guy, he just has a problem like any other addict he wants it. He doesnt do anything by forceful means we discuss them and thats when we end up arguing we talk about everything and I was just looking for a way to help him.