This is sorta a follow up from What do woman want What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you?How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?How much do looks factor in? Honestly?Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?
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What do Guys want?
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What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you?Equality, compassion, looks, great head giverHow much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?Twice a week minimumHow much do looks factor in? Honestly?Much, Otherwise I have to fantazise about a sexxxy ass woman.Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?I am now, well, actually, we waited till the morning (second day)
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What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you? Well appearance wise I just dont want the person to be butt ugly, otherwise it really doesn't matter. But i look for someone you can make me laugh, someone thats easy to talk to, and someone with at least a little bit of intelligence.How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy? Sex is not what keeps me happy or keeps me in a relationship, its the emotional connection with that person. Sex to me is just a perk.How much do looks factor in? Honestly? Not all that much.Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date? I probably wouldn't sleep with someone on the first date but if i did it can mean 1 of 2 things. I was horney and dont really care about this person, or 2 I felt a spark with them and it just happened to lead to sex in which case yes i would date them.
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I want a woman who acts innocent, but really isn't. She has to be intelligent and able to carry a conversation. And a very good sense of humor is very important cuz I like to mess around a lot.
However much sex makes her happy, makes me happy. Although, a moderately horny girl would make me happiest.
One of my flaws - she has to be one of those girls that can walk into a room and the guys look at her and think, I wish I could hit that. But personality can overcome looks, it's just that I prefer a very attractive woman.
Depends on the date. If it was a really really good date, and we connected and everything, I'd keep dating her after we had sex. But if it was moderate or an average to below average date and she still wants to have sex, I'd have to say, see ya later.
As you can see, it's tough for me to find the girls I want to hook up with. I think it's a curse.
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heya sunnysunshine I think I'll input what i want into this thread.Essentially the most important factor is a word that doesn't even exist. So I'll explain.She needs to be genuine. 100%. No alterior motives, no plans, no devious ideas. Just plain and simple.Once that is confirmed, then i can start looking at other factors.For example - I'm really not too keen on flirty types. Not that I'm jealous, but because I just think it's inappropriate...once she is with me anyway. I guess because I have been hit on by flirty girls who are already with guys and felt embarrassed/annoyed/actually interested As well as this, I'd like it if girls made their intentions a little more obvious. I can't read girls at all, and don't have the balls to make the first move unless I'm sure it will have positive results, so I like to know where I stand.She should be willing to actually have a bit of a cuddle. I guess I'm a bit of a soppy type, but I'm in sheer exstacy when I'm in the arms of a girl close to me. There is nothing better. I can't comment on kissing cos I've never done it.Again, I can't comment on sex because I've never done it, but at the moment it's not really important. I just want someone to be with Now as for looks - it's not really all that important with me. As long as she actually looks after herself in terms of keeping herself clean and tidy, then anything is good.Tall, short, big, small, plain, pretty - it matters not. I really only care for personality. Of course an attractive girl is a bonus, but it's not a deciding factor for me.I do have one complaint about girls though - they all seem to assume that all guys want is sex. There is no fair judgement involved. At least with me anyway. My curse of having no girlfriends scares others away as they think I have a problem or something, and because of this no-one will give me a chance.So that's what I want. Still waiting to get it though. 20 years+ now.
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Yo wassap I don't know. I haven't really been anywhere. I usually only come here for support (although I do miss the great community here) and basically I've had no need for it! Since "L" disappeared out of my life things have been better, but I'm throwing myself into the fray again recently..so will probably be making more of an appearance as my troubles start up again Nice to see that I've been missed I did pop back a little while ago for some help...you must have missed me.I'll try to make more of an appearance around here now though.
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What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you? Theres gotta be that certain something between the both of you as well as someone who is happy, fun, intelligent, hell it depends really...good looks are important too.How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy? Sex is great but not important.How much do looks factor in? Honestly? Lots, i hate to say it but like already mentioned, shes gotta be a head turnerWould you date someone if you slept with them on the first date? Yeh, every person is different. You could go out with a bitch who doesen't put out for weeks, even at all, or you could go out with someone who gives all on the 1st night and find shes perfect for you.
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LOLSo if the girl doesn't put out on the first date she's a bitch and if she does she's perfect.... Well said, LOL, just kiddin ladies.How much sex to keep me happy? Well, I'm not sure what you really wanna know here. How much sex will keep my sexual drive content or me as a whole? I've pretty sure I could fuck like a wild monkey for 2 hours a day, twice a day, and I'd be pretty happy. On the other hand, if my girl and I were both busy (lets say with out jobs or whatever) and we didn't have sex for a while, it wouldn't make me unhappy nor angry.About looks, I'd say they matter, but not in a vein way. they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and with this is mind, I don't think many people would want to date someone they find unattractice. The girl doesn't have to be a beauty queen, she just has to be in my eyes.
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I doubt many guys even know what they truly want, but here goes:What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you?Sense of humour, Passion (as in love for life, intensity), Intelligence, Willingness to experiment, Curiousity, Compassion. Also, in my case, being a vegetarian and a non-Christian couldn't hurt, but those are bonuses.How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?Nobody needs sex to make them happy. We all like sex, of course, but if you're with the right girl, it doesn't really matter. What matters is the heart and mind connections.How much do looks factor in? Honestly?Not much. Obviously, if a girl's got some sort of repulsive deformity or attribute, this can be a turn-off. The fact is, though, that in many cases, psychological attractants are much more important. If a girl is mentally and emotionally arrtactive to a guy, they will become more physically attractive as well. The guy will start to notice 'that cute little thing she does with her nose' and other such endearing character traits. I'm not saying that a gorgeous woman doesn't have an advantage over an average one. Just that if the chemistry's there, the looks are just a bonus.Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?I don't think I'd ever sleep with someone on the first date, but if I did, well, why not date them? After all, at least you know they're in working order, which is certainly a good thing.
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What do you guys look for in a woman?she's gotta be intelligent, I dont want a ditz. She
s gotta care about me and be willing to go out of her way for me. She
s gotta be honest and have good communication with me. Looks arent all that important, but at least be cute...How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?2-3 times a week...How much do looks factor in? Honestly?After all my up and down relationships...looks is like 6th on my priority list of 10 things - honesty is the most important thing followed by communicationWould you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?No, that just tells me she wants to fuck and not take me serious...bad values = headaches in the future -
What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you? A girl who makes me feel at ease whn I am with her. This means for example, that I can act like myself and not feel like I have to be artificial. I also like a girl who is reasonable about the humor thing. I don't mind cracking jokes and being funny and all. But I can't do it all the time. Sometimes I feel down and just can't put up the comedian act.
How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?
I don't satisfy easily. :wink:How much do looks factor in? Honestly? Yeah, ok. I am willing to go out with some real bow-wows. It would take a little longer to get me in the sack. Sometimes the best she can hope for is platonic love.
Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?
I feel honored whenever a girl is willing to sleep with me. But I want her ass out before breakfast.(OK, just playing on that last one) Or am I? Mmmmwuuaaahaaaaahaaaaa!!!!! :grin:
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LMAO
What are you talking about man!!! I want her to be there to cook me breakfast! :grin:
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You should be cookin' her breakfast after sleeping with your sorry asses. :wink:
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I've never cooked breakfast for a girl I've slept with but since I've given up sex until marriage (I'm really really trying) then I guess I won't mind cookin' breakfast for the next girl I sleep with.
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What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you?Maturity, Honesty, Forgiveness, Passion, Kindness, and at least some smarts so she can think on her own.How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?Whenever she is up for it, I dont have any requirements.How much do looks factor in? Honestly?about 25%, I really go for personality over looks, I am with someone right now that I can imagine growing old with.Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?No, because I honestly think sex should wait until you REALLY get to know someone.
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Hey there sunnysunshinedespite what some girls think, not all guys are in it for one thing What do you guys look for in a woman? i'm not entirely sure but she has got to be honest, kind, have a sense of humour, trustworthy - basically in the end of it, if the question is meant to be based on relationship-wise it's personality looks it doesn't matter because if you love someone, you don't care how thye look because you love them for who they are. How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy? i'll be happy with whatever she was happy with. How much do looks factor in? Honestly? as i said if this is a question based on relationship not just for pulling girls then it really doesn't play a big part in it, you fall in love with the person not the way they look. Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date? no i wouldn't because it shows that she was in it for one thing.
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What do you guys look for in a woman? Brooke Burns (host of dog eat dog) How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy? 1 time with Brooke would make me happy lol How much do looks factor in? Honestly? does she look like Brooke Burns Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date? only if she's Brooke Burns lol
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What do you guys look for in a woman?
I look for a very strong mind, good personality, and there has to be some physical attraction.How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?
As much that would keep her happy, I am not a sex crazed maniac.How much do looks factor in? Honestly? Looks factor in somewhat, personally, they make it easier to make a move when you believe that she is your type (looks wise). There is just a certain type of girl that I will melt over.
Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?
Well i would hope we did not sleep with each other on the first date, but if we did have a connection then i would hope we continued to go out. -
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What do you guys look for in a woman/or a guy for some of you?
The most important attributes are confidence, intelligence, ambition, a good heart, and physical attractiveness. In other words, my current (and future), perfect partner: my wife. :smile:
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How much sex do you think you need to keep you happy?
That's hard to say, but I need a woman who really enjoys sex, not one who is engaging in it merely to satisfy me.
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How much do looks factor in? Honestly?
They play a significant role, but it's partly because looks tend to affect confidence. However, I've dated some women who were only moderately attractive, but very confident and intelligent--to me, that's as beautiful as anything. Of course, if you have the confidence, physical attractiveness is certainly a major plus.
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Would you date someone if you slept with them on the first date?
I think a man would be imposing a double standard if he thought it was acceptable for him to have sex on the first date, but not his partner. Therefore, my answer is yes--if I had sex on the first date, I wouldn't disrespect someone for doing the same. I don't expect more from my partner than I expect from myself. Anyone who holds otherwise should reevaluate their own actions before they judge others.