Such a thing as too big?

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Ok, first of all, this may seem like it belongs in the male genitalia section at first, but bear with meWhen my (first) girlfriend and I were together the other day, she saw my penis for the first time, and expressed a concern that it "wouldn't fit". Having long since ended my belief in the "bigger is better" myth, I went to afraidtoask.com's male genitalia section, hoping to discover that my penis was of an average size and that there would likely be no problem. I was disappointed to note, however, that in length and girth, according to their statistics, it was larger than 90% and 87.5% of the male population, respectively.We are still a long way away from actually having sex, but I have always been scared that sex will be painful for her the first time, and I'm worried that this will make it worse. So first of all, I want to know if there is actually such a thing as too big, or am I over-reacting? Because I have heard that if it's too big it can be painful, but I don't know if that's within normal limits or only for freakishly well-endowed guys (which I'm not).If it might be a problem, what do I do? What do I tell her? Is there a way to measure (or even extimate) the size of a girl's vagina to see if there will be any issues?

I am a guy, but from my experience you are just going to have to find out. You may not be able to go all the way in b/c of your length, but the pain part will depend on the girl you sleep with. You are going to have to go slow and make sure she can handle it, especially if it is here first time being penetrated.

There is a such thing as too big and it varies from girl to girl. If you are looking toward making her first time less painful then you need to concentrate on "working" her out. Finger her adding more fingers over time. If she is really tight and you try to stick anything thick in there it's going to hurt her. For better reference, what are your measurements?

listen to websexinfo, that is why he is a veteran.

Measurements are:length: 7"circumference: 5.5"The actual measurements I took were rounded up for the purpose of the site's comparison, so the numbers themselves were a bit smaller (by maybe 0.1") but rounding up probably makes it more accurate anyway, since I'm pretty certain that when I was measuring myself I wasn't as erect as I usually get when I'm with her. I didn't really think these measurements were that above average, but that's what the site said shrugBut it's not so much the measurement on it's own that worries me, it's more the fact that she really didn't think it'd fit, and I would've thought she'd know, given that it's her vagina and all. So would it be easy to be wrong about that kind of mental estimation?

If she's a virgin and never played around with herself or she lacks information such as things on this site, it is easy for a girl to underestimate the size things that can go into a vagina. The vagina can expand and contract to the size of the object or body part that is being inserted.I thought you may have had a 10" penis or something, in that case it is possible to hit the inner walls of the uterus. As you can imagine that would probably hurt. This would be an example of being too big.Your girth is bigger than average but not by much. How much girth you possess will determine how much "working out" her vagina will need before you try to insert your penis into her. Since your penis is a girth of 5.5", I think being able to finger her with 2 fingers and her enjoying it should be enough of a "work out". Enjoy!

Ok, Heres where you need a girls Opinion: There is such a thing as to big, for individual girls. 5.5 for a virgin, Is a little big and may hurt her so try streching her out, like others say. Honestly, Be careful. You dont wanna hurt her, and then risk getting laid at all lol

5.5 isn't big, 7 inches should be fine as well, just go slow, she should be fine

Listen to amanda, she's sexually educated. :-)

She's a sex educator as well.

Oh really...

........... If you're wondering about a private demonstration I'm not sure she does that.

You killed it websexinfo...i was enjoying the thought process here. Lol, j/j. Amanda has a lot of vital imput to be given to our fellow members of the community.

"If she's a virgin and never played around with herself or she lacks information such as things on this site"

Well, she is a virgin, but she has 'been down there' and she was the one who told me about this site, so like I said, I think she would know, and I figured if I had a slightly larger than average penis, it's possible she has a slightly smaller than average vagina, which would not be a good combination. But I guess either way, I don't have much choice, we'll just have to work it out as we go (no pun intended). Thanks for all the info people.

Right now Im 13 years old and I am 7 inches so im gonna have a helluva time if my GFs are like that. But like Amanda said take it slow.

you sure you are measuring correctly?

You may be 7 inches long... but for all we know you could be as thick as a twizzler. In which case a virgin would probably handle it pretty well.

You don't indicate how old you are and you may be a long way from this. But, if and when, you two would decide to commit exclusively to each other, and for her to become pregnant ( or any girl you may impregnate), the resulting baby will have to come out the same way you went in. It just takes relaxation and lubrication. Take it slow, be sure she is thoroughly aroused (lots of foreplay), is well lubricated (use KY if needed) and wants you in her. If all of this is in place, when you begins the penetration, she will be in heaven.

You could just not go in all the way. just go as far as you can. and try to remember where to stop. thats what one of my friends had to do.

That would be true for a very long penis, but though 7" is longer than usual, nearly all women should be able to take it.