Hey everyone, this is for both guys and girls.. Just recently, i've basically been turned by this girl that i really loved (for 3 years ) and so now i'm left with the problem of getting over her.I was just wondering if any of you have had to go through this, and what did you do? how did you manage to get over the one that you loved?Be really grateful for any helpCheers, JaXx
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For Boys & Girls: Getting Over Someone You Loved
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hey there.. well everyone gets over it in diffrent wasy me i drink and go after other men lol but then maybe you should just think to yourself that life goes on and that theres nothing you can do about it but try and enjoy it the best you can?
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This is my post from a while back... it should help a lot...http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=98407&page=9&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1I fell in love with my best friend of 4 years. She started sleeping with some married cop who had 2 kids and she met the guy at the job I helped her get. After that she moved on to some Marine... Then back to one of her old ex-boyfriends. Blah.Anyway, this got me through a lot of rough times. If you have to, read it over again to remind yourself what you must do each day.
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I recently, about 3 months ago, began talking to a girl from another school near by. We talked for hours on hours everyday, even sometimes late at night. We never met in person, only by pictures. Her personality was the best. I cared so much about her. I got her through a rough time at home and she eventually moved out of her house and began living with her grandmother. Last week, she began dating another guy. This guy is a player. He will cheat on her, because I know what he has done before. I tried to tell her this, but she doesnt believe me. So I basically gave up on her. He now wants to fight me, but she wont allow it. I have no intention of fighting with him, but I will not stand for him hitting me. If he hits me, it will be his mistake. Basically, I loved this girl. Forget looks(even though she was beautiful), I loved her personality. I loved her. I would do anything to be with her. I took a hard fall and am still recovering from it. The only way to cope with it is to move on. My other experience was one of 2 years. I was madly in love with a girl named Destany. Were were very good friends, and she wanted to keep it that way..friends... I loved her and everything about her, I still do. We are VERY good friends to this day, but nothing more. Ive tried to hook up with her, but no luck. One day it will happen if its meant to be. Ive learned to accept this. The only way to handle a situation like this is to let time heal it. Eventually you will move on, but take your time and dont take anything less then perfect.
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The suggestions in that post seems like it can really help, thanks websex. I'm also in the process of trying to get over someone. I'm in the stage where I don't want to get over him and want to continue to cling on. Unfortunatly, I've been in this stage for awhile because he's been giving me mixed signals. (i.e. one day he'll act as if he's in love with me, the next as if he doesn't even know me so it makes the process of getting over him harder.) Thinking too much definetely can be bad. You can be a slave to your own thoughts. I find my thoughts drifting towards my subject of sorrow plenty of times throughout the day.
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hey its not a nice situation but its something we all have to crosstry concentrate on other thingskeep busy with other friends take down photo's that you have of the loved ondistance yourself from themwell thats what i think, and alot of ppl wont agree with me but hey
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thanks every1 for your posts i just wanted some ideas because, everyone who i know has never been in a situation like this. but anyway i've tried what you have said and well, it's just like i can't see me changing how i feel about her... also i don't know if i mentioned, that me and her were really good mates before and during this..any posts appreciated, fanks JaXx
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kinda got the same problem, trying to get over the guy i love, he broke up with me a couple of weeks back, and i cant see a way of getting over him. sworry i cant herlp, but if i ever do, i will let ya know how :smile: -
hey thanx dont worry bout it ever since this problem had started its been really hard and its like.. "will i ever get over it" but the thing is the answer is yes.. i mean ive started to see that in the end of it all this girl is not worth it to me, ive started to realise that maybe she's not the one for me. although i still love her so much and if she ever asked me out i would be there in a second (but wouldnt happen lol) ive just come to realise that its over whatever we had.. or whatever she felt about me and that i should move on because there are plenty more girlz out there and im sure there is someone special out there that i will find.and i hope this happens to you (although it be a guy of course lol) and everyone else..any posts relating to this and deadinside appreciatedthanx, JaXx