Do you get better control from cumming too soon the more times you have sex?
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Controling your cumming
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You can build endurance through experience but some people still don't build any endurance after having sex multiple times. For these people I recommend the start-stop-method.
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In reply to:
Do you get better control from cumming too soon the more times you have sex?
I would think like a lot of things, "practice makes perfect."
I imagine men may cum too soon at first, because it feels so good and novel, that they just loose control and start shooting. As they get more used to and practiced at sex, they learn how to better manage those feelings, and let them more slowly build, to please their spouses too.
Get married and have a good, loving, faithful relationship, in which sex can be enjoyed regularly.
Also, since God designed sex to be natural, that would probably help too. No foreign objects (i.e. condoms) designed to interfere with the wonderful possibility of pregnancy, or that may dull or overly-excite the pleasurable sensations of copulation. Leave open the possibility of procreation of babies, as sex was meant to be.
And like the other poster said, perhaps slow down a little. Maybe not stop and start, but relax and take it easy. The media perhaps paints an image that sex has to be hot and heavy, but why? Maybe easy and gentle, and in time, the penis will say "enough" and unload its semen, but after it has been aroused for a while, so it feels more natural and less forced.
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You'll get more used to intercourse the more you do it, and you'll learn to recognize the tell-tale signs of an impending orgasm. Then you stop for a while, and after the feeling recedes, you start again. That's what the stop-start method is about.I also found that masturbating sometimes teaches you to pay attention to those impending orgasm feelings and may help you last longer. The key aspect here is learning to recognize the feeling and stop in time to make it all last longer.