K i have thisn weird thing about me. Ok usually when im with friends or with my parents im usually quiet and dont say alot and have this lowish voice but when im home with my siblings i act more hyper and have a higher pitched voice and pretty much do the oppisite of a silent person like doing drop kicks on my little brother and shit. is there something wrong with me? i dont really like being quiet since all my friends are the loud funny type.I could only do that stuff when im drunk or high with friends other than that its just silent bob for me.
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Weird personality
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your just being a typical kid i guess most people are like that i mean im sure you cant do drop kicks with your parents hey ?
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everyone has a different personality and people act differently in different situations, there's nothing wrong with you
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Sounds like a cofidence issue. In most cases your most comfortable with your siblings as the whole idea of having them is to mess about, beat each other up and have fun.I think parents theres subconsiously a level of maturity to be shown in front of them, probably due to how you've been braught up, ie swearing, you probably swear when your with friends but not usually in front of your parents and you just generally act more mature and especially if your young at heart having mature convosations is difficult, you don't know what to say hence being quiet.With friends i see it as somewhere in the middle, because yeah you wanna mess about and have fun with your mates but but on the other hand theres a socially acceptable way to act to fit in, the people who are the loud ones tend to to veer more to the like with your bro and sis type attitudes, you've probably gone more to how you act in front of your parents.But over time you pick up things from these 3 influences and other ones in your life, thats how you become a rounded individual.I must say even now im kinda like you, it does depend on the people im with, at the end of the day you will act differently with different people. I've started a new job and im still a little uptight but its just settling in. I am a pretty confident person, im not a hugely social person, i am how i am, sucessful and pretty popular but i don't know how, my best mates were like the 'coolest kids' at school and we have a cool time togeather 'n' all even now, im still rounding off myself but hell, im only 19!
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Weird? Well, what's normal? There is no normal ya see. Back in high school there was a guy that hung out with us and I NEVER heard him say ANYTHING but we all accepted him and thought he was cool. Why? Because the guys I hung out with in high school were the awesome. We still hang out when I go back to my hometown.
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I was much the same at one point, and my daughter is similar. I think it's 'letting your hair down' when you feel in a situation where you're more comfortable and can be more yourself. So I agree it's a matter of confidence.
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whoa me and you are like the same! i know what ya mean ive been in the popular group all the time and my friends are pretty much the coolest guys there. i dunno but people like me for it. girls think im cute cus i dont really say much but its all cool.BTW im under the influence when i wrote this.