OKay, I have tried to be the nicest guy possible all my life and I have even had girls tell that I am the sweetest guy that they have met, but why is it that I always see those girls going after the guy that is a jerk. I mean what makes a guy who is a total asshole so attractive and a guy who is nice a complete cast aside? Is nice not so "good?"
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Here is a good question for all you women.
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well from my point ive been with loadsa assholes for yrs even my babys real farther was a real jerk off hense the fact im not wiht him anymore. I think when your young you want excitment and well if your with a asshole then nothings ever dull is it even if they are being totally shit to you. You see nice guys are what people really want BUT they want to try diffrent things first like i did i had a whole string of wankers. No im with a nice guy and settling down. I think thats how most people see a nice type of guy as .. a rock and someone to settle down to ..
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well I guess it would explain a lot. I mean I never have had the urge to just go out and have sex for no reason. Just want to be happy with a girl who I can spend time with and that sort of thing.
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I think that the sort of girl that you're looking for will be looking for the sort of guy that your are--a "nice" guy. Does that make any sense? Certain people are attracted to assholes, but those same people often have asshole-ish qualities themselves.
On the other hand, there is a fine line between an asshole and a *confident* person. Almost everyone, both men and women, are attracted to confidence.
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I can see what you are saying.
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Don't worry man. More and more women come flocking over to nice guys as they get older and wiser.
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the "nice guys" tend to be too "nice", thus earning themselves the sweet, understanding, "friend", relationship
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well i have been a bit more agressive lately and it has worked too well. I got 7 girls that like me now, but I never really hit on any but 1, so i will go back to my old ways.
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one day youll find your princess just dont look cause ive found if you dont look you get S if you know what i mean that is
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All those girls that reject you now because you're not "assholish" enough with be regretting it one day when they can't find a nice guy to settle down with or when they're filing for their 5th divorce.
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This is the way one comedian put it...
If you get with a nice guy after a while he tends to level off and become normal.
If you get with an @$$hole after a while he just gets worse and he probably starts hitting you.
When you're young, guys are like a box of tissues when you have a cold. You grab one, use it, and throw it away. Having a cold you go through that box of tissues pretty quick and by the time you're done with the whole box you're middle aged and lonely. Then you find yourself crying rummaging back through those tissues screaming, "OH GOD, WHERE WAS THE TISSUE THAT WAS TOO NICE! I'M SUCH AN IDIOT!"
lol... it's funny that I remembered that whole skit. :scream_cat:
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Yeah I have seen the same exact thing happen.Me, I have never ever mistreated a girl at all, im the one people come to for advice on their relationships, and I try to be the nicest, caring, loving guy there could be. but not with all the dull. Im pretty fun to be with and everything and a jokester and all around fun guy. I used to have a thing where when I liked a girl. I would really get turned down because they view me as if I were like their "brother". Which always bothered me. They feel their problem is also they find it wierd because they find me - their "brother" very hott. - But recently. I just found the most perfect girl for me. She is a dancer, and a cheerleader, and she doesnt view me as a brother. She is amazingly, amazingly beautiful, and she has the greatest personality. the looks are just a plus. We are going out and we are so happy together. Theres so much chemistry going on between us. So, in reality. In the future, the girls that throw you away because they dont feel like you are the one for them because you seem like a best friend or brother - they will regret it when they see you having a awesome relationship and lol its funny if you get your girlfriend to talk to them about how great you are. and they become jealous. it has happened to me already. they regret it. im 16 - Just hold your head up.
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In reply to:
you get your girlfriend to talk to them about how great you are. and they become jealous
LMAO. That's been done on my side too except I didn't make her do it. She was telling people at school about me and the next thing I know I'm getting e-mails from girls that turned me down back in high school asking, "hey, how are you? You have a girlfriend? Why didn't you tell me" :grin:
Confusing if you ask me.
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well I am 19, got 3 years on ya, and I have not seen this happen, but I have seen a girl change her mind on me recently and wants to get together, but I have already fallen for another.