Why does it hurt for her when we have sex? most of the time when we first start, she says it hurts so bad and stuff, and some times if i go to hard it hurts her. if any one has any ideas let me know, thanks.
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Girlfriends Pussy Hurts When we have sex
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She's probably still quite tight. How big is your penis both girth and length wise? Have you fingered her before? How many fingers could you get in there with her finding it comfortable? If you're around a 6" girth, then getting 2 fingers inside of her and it not hurting would be the goal your want to acheive.
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Im not sure how big i am really, but 2 fingers is really hard to do, if you can get them in at all. I thought it was some thing wrong mabee, im guessing im around average size, and 2 fingers is really hard to do with her, if at all.. so mabee thats the simple answer, thanks.
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Yes, my gf was like that to... i was just very gentle with her, and had lots of communication becuase i didn't want her hurt
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try going down on her for awhile as foreplay. you want to get her very aroused/wet before attempting intercourse.
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try lubrication, she's probably not wet enough
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Well like Amanda said, she might not be lubricated enough. Try to get her good & wet & try it again. Maybe that's the problem.If that doesnt work, just tell her you're fixinta pound it so she'll know what's comin. Then just lay it to her bro. It will hurt her, but after that you shouldnt have any more problems. I was havin the same problem for a while. Everytime I'd have sex it would hurt her, no matter how gentle I was. Goin slow & easy you're not out to tear stuff as easy. Well a good friend of mine told me to just pound it one night, so that's what I did. I told her I was going to after we started. I felt kinda bad becuase it was obvious she was in pain. But we never had a problem after that. So basically just work it hard & get her loosened up. One time is all it will take.My roomate just came home as she was leavin. He asked me "You fucked the hell outta her didnt ya?" LOL, I didnt know how he woulda known so I asked him. "Cause she's definately walkin funny."She wasn't mad at me at all. We waited for several days to have sex again becuase she was sore, but it was all good after that. Talk to your girl & see if she'd be up for it?
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it is true you can definitely tell when a girl had good sex becuase she walks funny. I had a girl tell me that when she had sex once it was real good and she could feel it for days.
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I've been with my wife since she was a virgin, and IIRC for the first year or so after we first started experimenting with sex (yea, before we were married..) she did mention that after the first minute or so of penetration it caused her a little discomfort. Not to the point where it hurt so bad that she didnt want to have sex, just enough to let her know that it hurt. We were both new to the whole thing, so i thought i was just being too rough. I just took my time, and tried to be as gentle as i could. It really helped i think to do a little bit of finger play before actually having intercourse. It got her alittle wetter, and prepared her a little for penetration. If you havent already tried it, give her a little oral sex, it really gets things flowing down there. :smile: