Ok, guys and gals...question? We have all seen the commercials, magazine ads, billboards etc, awash in gorgeous bodies. Men with rock hard abs, broad shoulders and chisled features. Women with size E tits and 17inch waists, blonde (usually) and so thin you would still starve if you killed and ate them, lol! I was wondering what really turns you on? Features that are NOT the media's projection of what human's are supposed to be turned on by! Guys...do you like brunettes over blonde's, chunky vs. thin, thin lips vs. full and pouty (mostly due to collogen, lol!) Gals....do you like a guy with a full beard vs. clean shaven, a little gut vs. abs of steel? These are just examples of course. But what REALLY get's you hot, things that the media would be surprised to know about, much less put on TV or in magazines?PS...I enjoy dark haired over blonde men, tall and usually more thin and lanky then is considered sexy. Goatee's over clean shaven, scruffy and rugged over sophisticated. I also love scars, tattoo's and moderate piercings (no penis rings or lip studs though!) I also go for a "air" of geekdom if you will, around a guy. Someone more shy and quite, intelligent and not noticed, but would definitly surprise you with his knowledge in bed
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Media Image and reality sex?
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hey good question! In men i prefer them to be a bit bigger than the media tells us... mehehe, and i like hairy men! I dont care if they're clean shaven or stubbly, dont really like the facial hair bit as much though :scream_cat: but theyre all just looks! personality is waaaay more important :grin: I love my men to be intelligent and funny, they have to be able to stand up for themselves and say what they think (to an extent!)
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In reply to: do you like brunettes over blonde's the 2 most beautiful girls i have ever seen (on tv actually) are brown and black hairedthe most beautiful girl i know in person atm is a brunettecan't say i'm a fan of the model anorexic build...but not a fan of flab either...
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i like dark haired men and women. weight - well i don't like really thin or really fat. anything in between is fine...although i'm more forgiving of an overweight woman than an overweight man....maybe because i expect women to be soft and men to be firm?hair...i like clean shaven (face) men and minimal hair elsewhere. sorry, but i dislike when a man has a hairy back and a ton of hair up front.i hate the bodybuilder look!
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"Which one do you want, the blonde or the brunette?" ... "Good cause I'll take any of them." qouted by Owen Wilson.The hair doesnt bother me that much although I seem to find myself more attracted to goodlookin redheads over anything else.I hate to see a woman with abs & ribs stickin out. Women weren't meant to have abs. They're supposed to have a higher body fat than men. I love a woman with a flat stomach & curves. I tend to like the more athletic type, and they generally have big firm asses, nice legs, flat stomach, and the perfect one would have 36C .
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This topic makes me wonder whether someday the media will base it's "epitomy of beauty" on everyday people's ideas of a perfect person. I doubt it.
Dark-haired men are sexier, in my opinion. I don't see why men bleach their hair.
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Dark hair is so hot on a guy, also I like their hair to be longer. Umm not a bodybuilder but kinda fit would be perfect!! Media blows. Celebrities bother me, a lot. Although, hottest chick ever:http://members.fortunecity.com/ales/CDR_AlessandraAmbrosioFernandoLouzaMClbr-01.jpgSince I like guys I couldnt find just one thats hot enough to post here.. lol
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yeah the media does suck now. Reporters are more like mosquitos, sucking off of other people. But back to the question, it is disgusting how we portray "beautiful" people. But I have to say the answer is not to rebel against that and say all people are beautiful b/c whenever somehting like that is done it causes more problems. we should just drop all images and everything will go away naturally.
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Guys...do you like brunettes over blonde's, chunky vs. thin, thin lips vs. full and pouty (mostly due to collogen, lol!)
i like bunettes better (lol but i'm dating a blond lol)and i don't like skinny ass girls. I like a girl to have a figure.
In reply to:We have all seen the commercials, magazine ads, billboards etc, awash in gorgeous bodies
most of those people you see are just avarage everyday people. ( i said most so don't jump on me, not that u or any one will...i just..NVM) alot of people would be surpised at wut happends after a shoot... computers can do/and change some things.
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A little muscle, thin, or a hint of chub is all sexy to me. Hair color isn't a major issue although I prefer anything that's their natural color. I like both full and thin lips as long as she doesn't mind me kissing them. Most of all, she must have a great personality. Intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, mild tempered, and kind. Women that are laid back and love to be romanced are a major turn on.... And if she likes to be on top then that is a major boner I mean bonus. :wink:
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"that is a major boner I mean bonus"Lol! That gave me a good laugh