My boyfriend and I are getting pretty intense in the physical department. We've been messing around for a while, and he's gotten me off several times, but I have yet to be able to get him off at all. Any suggestions about hand jobs? It's been rather frustrating... And my other question is, what is it like for a girl during the first time having sex? I've heard all sorts of things, but I'm getting more and more nervous everytime I hear something else. Is it really weird to do?
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Losing virginity and hand jobs
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It's not weird at all. In fact it's pretty natural. However the first time, like with all things, leads to much apprehension and confusion.I'm surprised to hear you say however, that you're not getting him off. What are you doing? Usually the guy is quicker than the girl. By the way, how old are you two?
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I have no idea what I'm doing, so that might be the problem in and of itself. I'm 19, and he's 24. However, he says he's not used to receiving, so shouldn't that make it easier? Plus, he's also a virgin, like me. Hence, my huge concerns over this topic.
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If he's not used to receiving from someone else, it may be that his body has become accustomed to his way of doing things. Ask him to show you how he does it. If you two are open enough to be naked together, you should be open enough to talk about things like this. Try loosely wrapping your hand around his penis and stroking it lightly. Feel his balls. Tell him how much you enjoy touching him and how much you hope he is enjoying it.
Talk. Ask him what he likes/what feels good, etc.
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yeah thats exactly it, he is used to his way... My gf does it way different then i do it... which isn't bad but once i got her to change a few things it felt way better
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Why don't you give us all the benefit of your experience? What "few things" did you have her change?
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try useing some lube,,,id glide feels great,,,& i bet will get him off,,,
