lube you need to buy, like ky jelly at a drugstore, like i said before you just need to experiment with different movements and motions
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Dildo Use?
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is ky just for masterbation or is it used 4 other stuff cos i will look like an idiot asking 4 that, if it is just for jerking of, at my local farmacy
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it's used for sexual purposes
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and no you won't look like an idiot, it's kept where the other feminine products are, like tampons, pads, etc
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but when i was 15 i was nervous buying tampons
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Go to the grocery and buy a nice zucini or something shaped like a cock - wash and use that... mum won't know you have a home-grown dildo.
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WOw, i thought I was the only one who even thought of using a brush handle. It does work really well!
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Well if you're a virgin, you should maybe use a 6 inch, or something on the smaller size. My one friend was a virgin until she had sex with her bf, who has a 6 inch, and she couldn't sit down the next day. Who knows though, you might be able to get a bigger one. I'm not good with girth, but if you look at a dildo, and it doesn't look intimidating (like it won't hurt you) then go for it. KY jelly is a good idea. When you start using the dildo, just start slow and work your way up to the pace you like. That's what self pleasuring is all about, experimenting. I hope that helps.
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Ok first of all, do NOT!!!! get a zucinni or banana or anything like that! If you have never had sex those will be incredibly painful and might not even be able to penetrate.Get the smallest vibe you can find to start with. Actually, I personally don't like vibrators. You can always try the old detachable shower head trick (set it on the high pressure setting and blast away at your clit).
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get a vibrating back massager. those are really good for clit climaxes, plus it looks innocent. or, as I posted elsewhere, try a stuffed toy with a firm nose.
