heya friend of mine has recently come out telling me he very depressed and lonely, that he got no1 and wants sombody to love. so i give him my support, egging him on talk to me, that it mite hlp telling somebody. so we were chatting last night and he was telling me how alone he felt and that he had something to ask me bout it all fucked up and stuff. anyways, today i sent him a text to see how he is as i saw him in a lesson this morning and he looked really sad (we dnt chat in lessons, we part of diff groups, we talk through texts). he replyed telling me i shouldn't worry and that he happy. it was obvious he was lying as he looked so sad. anyways, i really worried about him, cant get him outta my head and its driving me crazy! what should i do?? should i keep texting him or what? i don't know what to do and i need help.
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Tell me what to do
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like i said on msn tell put ur foot down and tell him your really worried about him and you need to know whats what...it usally works for me though.
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I've gotten hit by feelings like that before. Feeling lonely, rejected, unwanted. My female friends were the only ones who could drag me out. My guy friends couldn't do anything for me.I think you should talk to him and give him a hug. Let him know he's a great guy and that a girl he deserves will be his one day. Let him know you care about how he feels and that girls are stupid for not wanting him.That's what my lady friends would tell me and I'd feel so much better. Especially when they hugged me a lot. So warm n' cuddly. Mmmmm. Ah, good memories.
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youre a great friend becky..i wish id had a friend who i could tell things to when i was at my lowest.just tell him that u care about him...and that he will find the right girl soon...he has so much living to do... i know how hes feeling a bit but i believe that there must be someone out there for me. just tell him that you are always there and that he has people that care about him...im not doing too well here...ill chat to uabout it on msn if u want. he will appreciate the support...so dont come on too strong but dont give up on him.
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I find its hard to gently say good things to a depressed person. Sometimes, they are so down, that they won't beleive all the things you have to say.My advice, think of good examples of good stuff this guy has done before you talk to him. I know lots of people who didn't beleive half the crap I said about them unless I backed it up with examples (they're sweethearts, but have such low self-esteem).
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thankyou people, he coming over in a bit so i can help him with our business coursework, so will try and talk to him then. you all really sweet, thanks agen guys.
