Hi Im new to this website but i have been reading it alot!I find it difficult to cum while having sex with a girl. I usually end up having to take off the condom and jerk off for a while...If a girl is trying to give me head to cum, forget it!! I had this girl sucking for like 45 minutes before i cummed...One thing i think it might be the condom? 1 time i had sex with a girl w/o a condom and i was able to cum relatively fast.. but w/o a condom fears me because i dont want any kids or diseases...any suggestions? How can i cum faster?
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Takes long time to cum
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Shut up already. Too long to cum??? Many or most men would kill for a problem like that!
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actually, its a pain!!! It becomes a workout before I can cum!!!!
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Speaking from a girls opinion i would say its a great problem to having during sex.....but giving you head would probably be a pain....as much as i enjoy giving a guy head, suckin for 45min like you said it took once would be just a lil too much.
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Though people who cum too soon may wish they had it, it's actually a real problem. Sometimes it's because your penis is so used to masturbation anything else feels too different. In that case the solution is more practice with non-masturbation sex until you're used to that too.
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Try putting a small amount of latex friendly lubricant on before you put the condom on. It will feel a lot better for you. Not as good as the real thing, but better none the less. And be careful if you put too much it can slide off.
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Hi again! so i was having sex with my girl again today. I tried not masturbating much for the last few weeks! But I was doing it for like 1 hour with her! I swear she was on top, i was on top, from behind and everything imaginable. She orgasmed already but i wasnt even close! I ended up jerking off for like 5 minutes!!!It sucked because she kept insisting she wanted to make me cum but couldnt make me! Im getting worried now...
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What's the average length of time before cumming? I'm, almost 16 and started puberty at age 12.
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Do you mean during sex? It varies a lot, but the average is only a few minutes after insertion. Most women would prefer it to be a little longer than the average, I think.
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I had a bf that it would take like 2 hours. I hated it. I would get all I'd be sore. Longer is not always better. (He smoked A LOT of weed. A LOT. Did I mention it was a lot of weed?) Anyway, put some condom friendly lube under the condom.
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weed seriously affects time to cumming. i usualy take like 30-40 mins with my girlfriend but if ive been on the green all night it can be hours, it probably isnt the same for everybody, and when your stonned sex isnt all to great because your brain is just crying out for you to do something stupid like make a video of you getting arested or something. back to the point, stonners last longer than when they are non stonned
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I wish that was my problem!
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In reply to: actually, its a pain!!! It becomes a workout before I can cum!!!! Me being overweight, I could use that workout. Try masturbating b4 sex... I don't know; this is a new "problem" for me.
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Yeah, actually you're pretty lucky to be able to have it hold back that long. I usually cum soo fast, and I can't stand it. But, I have to agree that 45 min. is a long time.
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Hey Tyrone, I have the same problem. I was with a girl the other night, we had been togethr 2 times prior, she asked me if "There was something about Mary", if I didn't go out wit a loaded gun. I said. No, I believe i have a problem. I would have a beautiful woman, giving me oral sex, knowing she will swallow and i can't get off. Every position, it takes me forever, and with a comdom, forget it. I believe it has alot to do with masturbation and how you do it. I have always been a "death grip" masturbator. I was at a massage parlour ( yes a massage parlour) and it took me a good 20 minutes to cum with vigourous lubed jerking off. She told me to go to the doctor and have my prostate checked. I'm 30, and in good health. I'm defineatley going to get looked at, maybe there are some herbs, supplemnents, etc, to stimulate the ejaculation process..who knows...It is great to not be a 2 pump chump, but it is even hard to get aroused knowing your not going to get off for a long time, if at all. Any suggestions would be great.