Hi, I realise that this may be a previously posted problem, but I did not see it:I’m not sure If you can help or if this is a question you can answer, but I am becoming increasingly curious and cannot find a response to my situation...Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship, so we spend at least an hour or more on the phone to each other a day, in the run-up to one of my trips to see him, I discovered I love to hear his 'noises', from masturbating... he of course asked if I did anything like that and truthfully I told him that I don’t, simply because I do not feel any thing from it, he tried describing what to do and still nothing, he came to the conclusion I must not be doing it correctly... well sure enough when I next went to see him, he tried simulation, oral, fingering and using a small vibrating stimulator... none of this worked... It doesn’t particularly bother me, well didn’t, now I’m doubting I will ever experience an orgasm or pleasure...When researching my situation I read many times that most women do not reach orgasm thru intercourse, but from the clitoris, so what chance do I have...When speaking to him, being with him etc, I get wet, but that’s it.I also have not had sex and don’t plan to.Has anyone heard of anything similar, have any ideas to help?Thanx for your time
Cant get no satisfaction
can`t really help u#1 ask a doc#2 try 2 fuck and see how it works. sum women are not as sensitive down there as others
I find it strange that a man would be able to tell you how to rub off but okay. Are you trying to have an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone? Supposedly only 25% of women can have an orgasm that way. Personally I don't think any can. I've never met one. Clitoral stimulation is the way to go. ;-) Anyway, don't make such a big deal out of it. That is a sure fire way to give yourself sexual problems. Check out this site and see if it helps. http://www.the-clitoris.com/
Hi, Thanx... I went on that site and it was reasuring and informative.. I'm still not picticularly bothered by this as I have never have the prev experience to 'know' what Im missing out on... But I thought I'd try something that alot people seem to enjoy...
Having the water from the shower run directly on my clit.
1st occasion: at first I felt nothing then just something.. but as soon as I realised, it was over... after I doubted myself that I did feel something.
2nd occasion: felt good for the smallest time, felt shakes but still just like seconds, nothing major and of course I wanted that feeling back so I carried on trying to 'get it bac' and it was just painful :/
3rd occasion: It occured to be Im either building up a 'feel' for it or the water pressure it too much too quickly, so this time as I start to feel something I move the water angle away from direct and then back again, this time I guess was betta and that made it last slightly longer and I had the slight shakin effect but again nothing big, but still :smile:
I like this feeling like I'm discovering a new side to me. but I still cant get anything from just touching myself...
is there anyone that can offer advice? prev experience that confirms that some have to travel down a progressive road to reach their goal?
That's some intresting reading.. Seems you need a big fat dildo or penis... lol
Update: Showering is gd times for me-so much more I mean, still havent cum yet.. be its fun to practice