well, heres some more advice from yet another teenager. I am 15 years old, and feel much the same as the other teens on this post... Dont talk to him about masturbation...its just going to embarass him, no matter how close you are...it would kill me if my parents did...I personally learnt everything i know from my friends...and im sure your son will talk alot with HIS friends about it...and theyll learn and mature together...just knowing he does it, and he knowing you know is good enough...Another thing is Pornography, if u find it...dont be concerned...Many mothers i know have almost died after finding porno on their good-son's computer...mostely every boy i know looks at it and it is perfectly normal...to a certain extent that is...tell him you know about it, and tell him your concerns about it...I know MY mother did when she found porn on my computer when i was 14 and past it off for me "expirementing"...she also told me her concerns tho...about how she feels its demoralizing to women and so on...and i accepted those views and made up my own decision to continue or not...
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Talking to my son
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um.. sorry to disappiont you.. but your a lil late. she already did and it went fine.. seems i' the only teenager telling her to go for it..well if it's soo normal.. every parent should have the talk.. so then they were left wondering why we spend so much time in the batheroom
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Blush You're too kind, piercingshort04. I learn from you and all the people here.
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Lol, your welcome really i learn so much from being here and i love to help in the best way i can..
But i have to apologize about my signature.... lol. i know it's crazy sorry!
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Whoa! I never noticed! You have been here for a long time Ineligible. 01 is the year you joined. almost 4 years ago in a month from now.
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But it was late in 2001, so it's really only a bit over three years. But still, wow, it doesn't seem anything like that long.
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Well, considering how many posts you have, id say your average post rate per day is... about 3.3 posts per day. Thats quite something considering how long you have been here.
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Hey piercingshort04, do you mind if I use your saying? "sex is when a guys informationenters a girls communication to increase the populationof a younger genarationas my signature?
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I would have just said "Hey son, if you ever need to know anything about anything, go to afraidtoask.com!"
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No go ahead i don't care if you use it as your sign.
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Just let ur son discover it on his own. if my parents tried to talk to me about how to jackoff, i would be freaked out. i think the lock on the door is a good idea, so u don't accidently walk in on him and see something u don't want to. he would be embarrased for life. a lock is a must. and as for the tissues, just put a box in his room when he's at school one day. don't tell him how to do it. maybe u could even hide a porn magazine in his dresser one time LOL. if he asks about it, just tell him u don't know where it came from
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My advice (I am 13).1. Respect his privacy. Probably one of the biggest fears he has is that you or his sister will walk in on him while he is masturbating. Always knock first. Give him time to put "things" away. (I think you know what I mean by "things")2. Ignore things like squeaky beds, use of tissues, lubricants, or semen on the bedsheets. Pretend you don't have a single clue what he is doing.3. You don't have to discuss it with him unless he asks.Edit: After posting, I noticed this is a stale thread so the mother will probably not see this. Oh well. Perhaps it will help some other person...
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Dead Thread.