If you're saying that I don't know the difference between love and just sex you are wrong. I do. I believe sex was meant to be with someone you care about and love and who loves and cares about you just as much. I don't, however, understand how anyone could have sex with someone else while their partner watches. And I don't understand how the someone's partner can just sit there and watch because I couldn't and wouldn't watch my boyfriend have sex with anyone but me. It's hard enough to understand and believe that he had sex with other people before me. I'm certainly not about to sit and WATCH him have sex with someone else in front of me. If other people can do that, that's fine. I don't care. But I can't....and...I won't. I don't share. Ever seen the t-shirt that says, "does not play well with others?" Well, I don't share my boyfriend well with others and the only way I'm sharing is if I don't know about it. Some people can watch. I'm not one of those people. To me, personally, sex was created as higher way of expressing the love, affections, and passion that you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife...when just words can't. I see people throw sex around like it's nothing anymore and I honestly believe that's wrong.