alot of time girls say these kinds of things to me, how come none of them will go out with me??...a few girls say that i make them feel so different that they could be crying and i can make them laugh at the same time they said thats something special i asked if it was good or bad they said very good. but still none will go out with me....why?
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"Your cute, you make me laugh and your so sweet."
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A LOT of girls would say the same things to me and none of them wanted to go out with me. Most of the time I got the, "You're so sweet I don't want to lose you as a friend" remark. It gets easier with age though. Monday night I had a pregnant chick and a married woman hitting on me trying to hint toward some "other" activities than school work if you know what I mean. I figure, especially at a young age, people just don't know what they really want. Even though a girl may want a sweet attractive guy with a great sense of humor it doesn't necessarily mean she's going to bite the hook. Keep fishing friend. You'll get yourself a keeper.
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hmm, i dont know to me im not attractive at all im not being self consious or anything cuz i will still talk to girls and stuff just that i dont think im attractive even tho some girls say i am... welp (rebaits hook, cast out) talk to you later websex
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well going by other websites, u have to be more of a 'jackass' to get a girl.. not a big sweetie that makes them feel better
and girls have told me this is 100% true.
be a demanding dominating mysterious ass, and you'll get the girl.my opinion: no idea. i dont have a gf.
lol im just a clueless sod :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: -
well im a real nice guy... im friends with all the girls in my school- you know where being friends with all the girls in your school gets you? abso-fucking-lutely NOWHERE
this is because all girls subconciously think of you as a friend instead of a hot guy they want to kiss
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u have to be more of a 'jackass' to get a girl
hmmmm maybe THATS the reason...lol...no honestly...that IS the reason...i NEVER get the girl, although i look just as good as my player friends which ALWAYS get the girl...theyre all assholes to them too...i dont know how they do it... :confused:
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being a jackass works.. i use to play every girl i got.. loll.. one time i had about 10 all going qith me.. never found out about each other...
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this kind of shit makes me feel bad, i mean it's true, women usually do go for the mean jackasses, so I guess we can't really get mad if they treat us badly. I don't know why this is, but honestly, I think women do this because we need something to work on, or else the relationship gets boring. We want a challenge so to speak, and a guy who is emotionally stable and caring doesn't provide us with that. We aren't as interested b/c there's no mystery to solve, there's nothing to help, and it's in our nature to help. We don't want predictibility, so if we know a man is going to come to our door with flowers every time we see him, we become disinterested. Women also like to be submissive most of the time. We want a guy to take control and push us around a little bit. We hate when guys constantly ask us, so what do you want to do? That's why a lot of women get pleasure out of rough sex, it makes us feel submissive and wanted.
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hence nice guys finish last
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massgrvgurl...let me ask you this...u had to go out with one guy, both the relationships were destined to work out moderately well...but both would take different courses...both of the guys look the same, act the same...etc... EXCEPT one of them smokes and has a criminal record, but is still a good guy...while the other one is just a good guy...which one would you choose?
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In reply to: We aren't as interested b/c there's no mystery to solve, there's nothing to help, and it's in our nature to help ...what the??
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I would probably go out with the one that smokes and has a criminal record, but only because I'm like that myself. I wouldn't feel comfortable with a goody goody because I'd feel like I couldn't be myself around him. But yea, I'm sure a lot of girls can relate when I say that they like mystery in a guy and they like to change, or in other words, help them. All of my girlfriends are guilty of it, and so is my mom. My one friend gave up on this guy she was into because he was a nice guy, virginal, and she likes that, but he wasn't willing to have her be his first kiss because he was too nervous. She couldn't help him and it pissed her off. *shrugs
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if i am sometimes an asshole guy or wahtever girls dont like that either.. oh and by the way massgravegrl i really liked your post very informative and im taking your word for it but sad thing is i just cant be any of that im not that kind of person so if most girls are like that i have to wait for one taht isnt i dont know where she is
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Wow same problem as you Muncher12. But still no 'keepers' so i still dont get to do the slap/pop bass funk out thing . And that thing about being a 'jackass' ¬_O I wish i saw the logic in that... i really wish i did but i mean how boring would life be if you could get things figured through logic...
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women do these things because they are nothing but heartless hypocritical pieces of shit. in my experience atleast. take my advice, invest in some serious self evaluation and realize you don't need a woman to make your life better. and if it is that hard just get a magazine and some lotion.
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I have had a choice between two men who were both exboyfriends and came back into my life over the past two weeks at the same time. One was a SWEETHEART who would never do anything to break my heart and he was romantic and loved me and did everything RIGHT. The other has a criminal record, smokes, is an alcoholic... he has broken my heart over and over for the past year... guess who i chose!!!? ....Yes, I broke the sweetie's heart. He cried on the phone when I told him I was back together with Jason. Jason ditched me on fuckin valentine's day last year and cheated on me with my best friend! I don't know what made me choose him......... I love him... he says he loves me. He says he wants to marry me. I KNOW mr. sweetheart wanted to marry me and i KNOW he loved me... BUT I chose Jason. Maybe because I've been with Jason on and off for a year... maybe because I fall for lies to easy... They are both sexy men. I don't prefer the looks of one over the other.I don't understand it myself.But I proved to myself that I choose the bad guys...
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I dont know about that, my gf seems to love the way i am. I mean im not the most goody-goody guy ever but i always treat her right and be nice to her. I think if i started bein an ass to her she'd eventually end up hatin me not likin me more.
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You're listening to your heart way too much girl. A relationship has to be logical as well as heartfelt, and that relationship is hardly logical at all. For the sake of yourself, get away from this guy.
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Stop making it seem like theres a lost hope for the sweet guys. Granted a lot of chicks prefer them but there are girls that do go for the sweet guys. Choosing between a kind, cute, and funny guy and a prick is a hands down thing for me. I always pick the sweet guys. But then again I always get burned by them.
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obviously you have not found the right nice guy....me I am still searching....i have to mature of a view on life..