This may be a really ignorant question, but how do you define sex between lesbians? I mean, what constitutes it? I'm just curious, as it's not as straight-forward as hetero or gay sex..
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Defining lesbian sex?
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depends on who is participating and what they like. options:
oral only
oral + toys
toys only (don't know how common this is, probably not too.) -
Hmmmm..I'm just curious now because my friends were talking about it today, and they had a good point - if sex between girls can be classified as oral, then can you "lose your virginity" just by having a girl eat you out? And if it's classified as using toys, then can you "lose your virginity" to a dildo? And if a dildo, why not a tampon?Just an interesting thought..
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because you're not having sex with the tampon if you want to define "virgin" in the narrowest sense of the word, as having never been penetrated by a penis, then all lesbians are virgins. and all girls who have had oral and anal sex but no vaginal penetration are virgins too.doesn't sound quite right to me. and i can assure you that lesbians who have had sex don't consider themselves virgins
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In reply to:because you're not having sex with the tampon Good point