I feel DIRTY

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Hey see im a guy, im 16 and i usually masturbate over some of my really close female friends. its great at the time but afterwards i feel as if i have disrespected them in some way.. have I and has anyone else had this happen to them?

Masturbation and fantasy sorta go together. I think we all have masturbated at the thought of someone else, girlfriends, girls in general, celebrities, porn, for some guys even other guys and such. I do understand the feelings of guilt and stuff that go along with it. However, I think most guys do the same thing so you're not alone. Maybe if you changed the object of your fantasy or your thoughts on who while masturbating it would be easier. However, I suspect there'lll always be some fantasy involved, sure helps the process some!

Naw. Just don't tell them I'm a girl and I wouldn't be offended if any of my guy friends did that to me. I'd just be flattered because it means I'm attractive

think like a celeb ... =)
what if the last loser on earth would jack off @ you ? ....

I do that all the time and I always feel guilty too. But remember, Its just a fantasy. Fantasys are fine as long as you dont try to make it reality(depending on the fantasy), but if you want to think about a boy, a girl, your sister or even your dad it's fine, just make sure you dont do anything thats harmful. Fantasys are just thoughts.

many ppl do that. no need 2 feel dirty . and why disrespect ? it`s not disrespect to jack off @ sujm1

i do it also...

ignore the j in sujm.i have no probl admiting it. iup i do it.

I'm in agreement with SCK1. It's pretty normal. And as long as you aren't trying to get peeks at things you shouldn't or something like that, just thinking about the person isn't wrong. I don't think you should feel guilty. I wouldn't if I were you. I also wouldn't tell them about it though. People are so weird about the whole topic. What you fantasize about is your own business. So stop worrying and just enjoy it.

evewr get that feeling when your done.. ( now why the hell did i masterbate to that.. ?)

I always get that feeling after I'm done. It's like a "why did I just do that" kind of feeling afterwards.

nah u havent disrespected them, i dont think. i do it all the time! but of course some may find it offensive so it would probably be best not to tell them. i usually invite a female friend over once in awhile, and we watch porn together. i always end up getting really horny,a nd depending on the girl, either have sex with them, get oral, or just masturbate and cum on them. if anything i should feel that ive disrespected them more than you have.

how do ya get`em to watch porn with ya ? =)

well theyre usually close female friends, so i just invite them over. we fool around on msn for a bit, then i usually play a video or something.. at first theyre surprised, so i get them to stay and they do and we both end up horny. wont work on all girls but its worked for everyone that ive tried it on.

No harm, no foul!I’d hate to have to admit everything I’ve thought of when I was alone. Friends, colleagues, that saucy little poodle next door… um, sorry about that.As far as the guilt goes, remember there are 2 parts to an orgasm. The physical part and the mental part. There have been plenty of times where something was so hot and kinky before, then icky and shameful a moment later.

Fantasizing is completely natural, no wrong doing. I used to masturbate and imagine having sex with my ex (who I was still with at the time...I stupidly told her about it later, but she didn't mind). It is quite funny looking at them the day after...you just can't help but laugh.

Lol.. i assume it's a drop in the horomone levels.... nothing wrong with masterbating off to friends... i know girls do it...

I have frequently-well i am epsessed with my female friend-i have the biggest crush on her and she knows-so i see nothing AT ALL wrong with it.

In reply to: Hey see im a guy, im 16 and i usually masturbate over some of my really close female friends. its great at the time but afterwards i feel as if i have disrespected them in some way.. have I and has anyone else had this happen to them? Wow! I have EXACTLY the same thing. Glad I'm not the only one.

Wow i feel bad afterwards just doing it...lolz