My boyfriend is 20 years old and circumsized.He has been trying masturbation for about two years, but it never feels like much, he describes it as just feeling like skin moving over skin. He says that it feels a little nicer when i do it, but still nothing much. And i do try all over, concentrating on the head or the shaft, seeing if something would work. blow jobs really don't seem to feel like much either. though i'm the first to admit that i'm no expert on that, him being the only guy i've done it on. this is kind of starting to bother both him and me (me mostly b/c i feel like i'm doing something wrong and am not giving himt he full pleasure that he could experience).the only time that he has ever ejaculated has been in wet dreams (which he still does have, about once every month or two). what also bothers him about that is that what has come out then has always been clear.could the lack of sensation be coming from him being circumsized or is something else going on here? and does anyone have any suggestions for helping to increase feeling for him?
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Can't ejaculate/orgasm
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I'm no expert, but I'd suggest going to see a doctor. I've heard that clear semen implies a low sperm count, or possibly impotence. He might also have erection problems, which medication fixes.
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It seems as if he is not very developed - much less than you'd expect at 20. I think he should go to a doctor and have his hormone levels checked.
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She didn't say he has erectile issues, just sensitivity. There is a possibility that the circumcusion has rendered him less sensitive. You just can't tell though. And again, some people are less sensitive than others. You hear about women not being able to achieve orgasm... they might also be less sensitive. Maybe he has underdeveloped nerves that lead to the glans...or perhaps even some damage.. Probably his best bet is to be evaluated by a urologist.
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When you said clear... did you mean the wetdream cum or when he masturbates, clear stuff comes out? If it's when he jerks, that's pre-cum. What I suggest (if you haven't done it already) is pick a day when you have an hour or two free (preferaly more) and spend a lot of time on it. It will most likey take a long time, so when his hand gets tired, you do it until you get tired. While he's doing it, "massage" his ball-sack (Lightly, though!!!), moan, let him look at porn (although, you probly won't want that), do whatever you can do to stimulate him in other ways than hand-penis contact (except for while his hand is resting up). Experiment with lube/no-lube. Lube just feels weird for me, I prefer no lube, but a lot of people like it. Try a bunch of things, and don't give up!!!
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thanks all for the feedback.and it's the wet dream stuff that's clear. i've actually never seen any pre-cum, but then again, i'm not exactly sitting there examining the tip of his penis and no, there are certianly no erectile issues.
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I'm 15 and I have exactly the same problems. Could I have a low sperm count or be impotent? I'm quite worried. I have a foreskin though, but still feel no sensations. To reach an orgasm I have to roll my foreskin down and rub my head, but i'm still quite insensitive.When I have wet dreams, my cum is clear and I am never able to cum through masturbation. Do you think I'll develop more? I have already gone through a big part of puberty.
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I have noproblems at all getting erections as well.
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First thing to think about is “everyone is different”Also, young people grow and develop differently. When you feel that there may be a medical problem, then it’s time to see a doctor.Young guys, including me at the time, find sex to be a little difficult. It’s a big transition between learning how to do it yourself and learning how to let someone else do it!
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I wouldn't worry about cum from a wet dream being clear. Although cum looks whitish when its first ejaculated, after about 20-30 minutes it liquifies and turns thinner, and it also becomes more clearish looking, so it doesn't stay white. So unless he woke up right after or during the ejaculation in the wet dream, the cum may have just liquified and turned clear by the time he woke up and saw it.