Well I posted probably a month ago about how amazing this girl I met. Anyways after 3 dates (kissing,touching,serious conversations), she realized I wasnt for her..Anyways we always talk online (bad mistake cause she can hide behind her computer screen), the 4th time we saw each other we went to a party and this was after talking about being togather and she didnt want to, but she was flirting with me like in the car she had to sit on me cause there was no seats and she was putting her head on my shoulder and feeling my leg and hand and whispering to me stuff, anyways now i keep bugging her I admit but now shes saying she doesnt be friends with people she had a thing with or ex boyfriends, and she says give it time and she doesnt wanna hang out now or talk on the phone, just on the internet , thats it.. she said it will be weird seeing eachother since all the things we've talked about online and been through..is she saying give it time to be nice or?Is there any chance on being friends with her, If I knew she didnt stay friends with her ex's I would never of made any moves cause friendship is most important to me, and i dont know what to do, Should I lay low for a while or i dunno..She knows i wont give up so i think shes just loving it and getting off on me begging but i just cant stop not being friends with someone, we've talked online for 2 years and seen each other like a total of 10 times, 4 times dates Another reason is all her friends are my friends ( girls) and she gets PISSSSSED when I hang out with them, so i cant be anymore then "msn buddies" with them cause they dont want her mad at them
Something I can do?
I cant ever see her without planning either so its not like we can meet up somewhere by accident and start talking , she lives in the next town and goes to school there, but I might be going to her school in febuary, should i just wait till then cause i think she would hang out and talk then..and now just talk to her a little on msn , not to much? Shes such a different person on the internet then in person:(
you know they're your friends too, you shouldn't just not hang out with them because of a girl, that apparently decided to cut you out of her life, doesn't want you too. She doesn't exactly sound like a great catch if she has done all these things to you.
well we hung out once and she went crazy and the girl doesnt wanna hang out with me anymore cause she doesnt wanna ruin there relationship so theres nothing i can do really..I dunno, this sucks..I cant see how someone can just cut off a friendship and never ever see each other again for no reason
Leave the poor thing alone. If you want her to be your friend stop bugging her. The only thing that will result in your current path is she won't be your friend. That may result anyway, but it will for sure happen if you don't leave her alone. As to why, maybe she feels things were progressing too quickly with you. Which to me it sounds like it was.
We've been talking on msn a little bit every day , we havent mentioned anything about doing anything or relationships or anything, just normal stuff..a week after a bunch of that (me laying low) we were talking about snowboarding and i said i go 3 times a week and she said " maybe you can teach me sometime eh lol" and that came to a suprise since I thoguth she'd never see me again, we were talking about schools since im switching next semester and she is telling me to go to hers and hers in the best around she said..Also she was talking about going out for dinner with a few friends but she didnt have a date, well she said she might but she doubts it, kinda hinting that maybe i will go?
Altho she has been bragging or telling me about another guy , saying shes on the phone with him or shes going to the movies but she really doesnt go out with him she just says it then something happens ( do you think shes just trying to make me jelious or is there really a guy lol?)
We planned a snowboard trip on christmas holidays about an hour away, im gonna teach her, but i dont think im gonna make any moves cause i dont wanna go through this all again, even tho i know she is going to flirt with me.. lol she changes her mind so much..
My buddy told me when we broke up "Just lay low for a while and she will see your having a good life and try to make it seem better then hers and then she will miss you and come back"
guess its true cause ive been going to alot of parties lately and i know alot of people, getting more popular and i got a partime job finally and buying my own car...
I dunno I just hope we can be good friends..thats all i want for now:)
Any opinions, suggestions, questions? lol
Sorry for long post
Well i got accepted to the school she goes to today.. I told her on msn and she was happy and she said if i need a tour ask the principles to get her out of class and she will show me around..I even said im going on friday to set up my time table and shes said she wasnt going to school friday but she will if imgoing, then we talked about busses and i drive and her house is right on the way so she said jokingly that i should drive her then she was actually serious , shes like so u will come to my house every morning lol... Well i really like whats happening, I really love being friends with her but im just scared of her and me doing exactly what happend again and her saying "im not friends with my ex's" thats what scares me