Anybody else feel...

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Like they got the shaft when God was handing out bodies?

well, yeah, body types, everything about ur personal appearence..perhaps not so much the things you can change, but rather the things you can not. Also maybe voice as well...basically everything genes take care of...

yeah, stretch marks, those aren't too bad, i mean you're right, everybody has those...but as for me, where do i begin? 1: Acne2: height3: penis4: muscle mass (i can't seem to build muscle 5: facial hair ( i'm 18 shit should be there a lil bit at least)6: voice (wish i didn't sound like a guy before his voice has really changed)7: wish gynecomastia was gone i'm sure there's more, but that's all i can think of off the top of my head

All the time, i hate my height cos im 6ft 4" and it sucks hitting your head on doors and getting laughed at, also i hate my voice too, and my hair. Guess everyone hates atleast ONE thing about themself

yes, that's true, but you have your body to back fall back on...mine's just one imperfection after another...fuck i sound like i'm asking for pity, but i'm just wondering if anyone else feels the same way...P.s. i'm not asking for pity.

I wouldnt say i got my body / anything to fall back on lol. But i mean, you gotta try and keep a positive look on things at all times possible, i know that wont help now, cos you seem pretty unhappy and i can relate, but at the end of the day you gotta accept who you are and try to enjoy it.

yeah, i'm pretty unhappy with my body, it's like getting a car for a certain feature, and u paid 34000 dollars for and then find out it doesn't even come with that feature and you can't take it back, that's a terrible analogy, but i hope you get my drift. 8: eczema

Yeh i get what you mean, but if your lacking some where there's gotta be some place else your excelling at.

lol that's the thing...i'm not excelling any where else...i know what u mean tho. like the whole you lose sight, your ears get better and what not. but...wait let me think...nope no place excelling.

but yeah, i wish i had at least one or two good physical features, and not have to rely on my brain...naw mean?

yes.for unsaid reasons and Geeeeeeeeez dang it! i want anothiner freaking growing spert! Grrrr i don't have any hair either, well i got pitt and down thre hair but no face or chest hair. and really i don;t want it sooo i'm not really worried about that. lol i just want to get a little freaking taller. oh!!! i'm not even going to start on my stupid husky 12 year old country voice! (lol not my words, Diver's, ok , ok he never said country i say that. well it;s true Grrrrr!) BUT HELL YEAH! I can make a great toad and dirt bike sound. my sound effects Rule LMAO!!

You shouldn't be so hard on yourself... I'm 5'9 1/2, one of the tallest people in my family (they're all like 5'5 and below), I'm fat, I have acne, but hey, everyone has to go through tough body changes. I have lots of imperfections, but I can still find something good about myself. I'm a good listener, I'm a good friend, there are lots of other things I'm good at. Not everyone looks at physical things, don't worry... things will work out in the end. Believe me, it always does

how old are you? are you still going through puberty? I don't mean to make it sound like your imperfections are any less then mine, they're equal, as we both feel the same, but mine are still there, and i'm 18, and i'm pretty sure i should be done with puberty, at least all the really big changes; penis size, acne, voice, hair..all that good stuff.

It takes longer for some people to be done with all that stuff.I didn't stop breaking out till I hit 19.My sister still breaks out a lot and is 25. If your under a lot of stress that factors in too.There's a lot of things I use to hate about my appearance but after a while I guess I got use to it and stopped caring so much if other people had a problem about me because of it.

i'm pretty sure the acne is from prednisone, but everything else...just pisses me the fuck off, that's why i think i got the shaft, the way it's taken me so long to go through these "changes". bah...it's so depressing.

I know how it can be.But in your teens in when you have to put up with a lot of jerks who will make a bigger deal about it bc they are insecure of themselves and rather people focus on you instead of them.People get better with it with time but there will always be a-holes out there. I found it easier to deal with when I would try to not take it so serious. It doesn't work too well at first but if you keep trying to see them as just an idiot and have the whatever attitude it does get easier.

it's not so much the assholes that i care about...actually i can care less. it's me, I hate looking down and seeing a small penis, i hate looking in the mirror and seeing a 15 year old stare back at an 18 year old, and he has acne, i hate looking at myself naked seeing skinny little bitch forearms and biceps, and also seeing gynecomastia.. :frowning: I hate singing in church because I can't even hit the low notes that the Tenor's - the highest of the male voices - can hit. *HUMPF* i feel a little better, being able to vent. thanks

well i'll be 21 in a couple weeks and I still look like i'm 14.See with you no one can tell by looking at you that you may or may not have a small member.Me everywhere I go people can see that I have small breasts.It's no big deal really.And besides a lot of guys think theirs is small when it's actually average. And I still sound 12. I've had people call up and ask me if my parents were home and when I said um i'm an adult they thought I was full of it.I knew a guy that his voice didnt change until this year and he is 22 now.

yeah i know a lot of guys think they're small...cuz they constantly write, i'm 6 this 5 that..but i just barely make 4.75...that's small.

trust me not everyone cares about sizeyour thinking way too much into it.If you act more confident about things the girl will not care really.