Ok. I've read a lot about how guys love it when a girl touch their prostate gland. I am not going to force my boyfriend into this. But I was wondering how come he doesn't want a finger up his butt while I rub his prostate..ok I just realized why. lol. But he doesn't even want me to lick his balls.... I want to give him the maximum pleasure but somehow he looks at it like its for freaks...Is he uptight or am I just not realizing anything?
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Why Don't My man Wanna
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most guys and even myself consider anal play as a thing for faggots.
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Well what about the testicle thing? Is that considered...gay? cause i've watched a lot of porn(hehe) with girls sucking or touching the guys testicles....!
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No, he might just be insecure about them or something, cus that's definetly not gay.
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Unless you actually are gay you shouldn't worry about being gay. lol
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u can't assume that by sucking his testes, that it'll be pleasureable, just because you see it in porno's doesn't mean it's good. those are actors, and they can make it seem like the worst possible thing done to them, feels good.
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Well do you guys think it feels good? or would? because all I really wanna do is make him feel good.
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heh. people are largely uptight about their assholes. heh. (dumb comment here)But seriously, if you are gay, then you want to have sex with men.If you are not, then, whatever you want to do with your willing partner should be fine. Right?There is also the mess factor. Depending on what you're doing, and how you are doing it, you could end up with a dirty finger or a bit of a mess in your play area.The biggest deal here: talk about it. It's pretty fun, actually.
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the only reason i can think of that a man would not enjoy postate stimulation is because he isn't comfortable with anal play. It's a shame that anyone would deny themseve pleasure because they have a hangup. That said, you can't force anyone to do anything, even if you believe he will like it.sex is half physical and half mental.
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A good massage of the prostate by my finger is quite pleasureable and by no means is gay. Try it, you'd enjoy the orgasm and ejacuation you can have that way.
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Many men are insecure w/ the finger in the anus. I would mention it to him tell him you would like to. Becareful tho, your nail can cause major damage. When giving him head or a hand job try rubbing the patch of skin commonly refered to as the "taint". If he likes the touching... slip a tongue down there... he will enjoy it... then lick his balls... Taint - >It is located below the balls and before the anus. As far as touching or licking or sucking on balls. If done correctly it can be enjoy able. He may be extra sensitive there. Be gentle.
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Something else to consider is that possibly he is concerned that he may be "funky" down there. Try it right after a shower.
