Is keeping ur distance from an ex and acting like you don't care or you don't acknowledge their presence ever, is that a good way to get to them or to get them to want you back? Since there are always things that remind me of my ex, is he thinking about me just as much b/c there are just as many things to remind him of me? What's the worst thing that bugs a guy after he breaks up with a girl? What could she possibly do that would really irritate you, or get you jealous?
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Don't ever play games with another person's emmotions. It will only come back to haunt you and visa-versa. It sounds like you are into the jealously game. Drop it and play cool.
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I agree. It's not good to mess with people like that. Especially after a break-up. If you're meant to be, you'll end up together. If not, then don't push it with the jealousy game. It can only make things messy. Or, if you're doing this just to make him feel bad.. don't.
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you shouldnt try to get your ex jealose. if you want to get back together with you ex, talk with eachother. see if you both have the same feelings. dont play games, it wont help anything, and might give off the wrong signals. the best thing to do is communicate, and if you are the only one that wants to mend this old relationship, then find something to get closure. realize that there are other people out there, that you will be happy with in the future.
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1.)Stop trying to manipulate that person. Perhaps that’s why they are your ex. People don’t generally like be manipulated.2.)Probably not. He’s most likely thinking about stuff he enjoys.3.)Her pining for him and not getting the hint that he’s done with her.4.)If he’s done he won’t care what you’re doing. Why are wasting all this energy on someone that doesn’t want you? You acting in a pathetic, needy way and no one is going to be wanting you. Move on with your life.
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THanx for the advice. I generally appreciate the hard honest truth, and that's exactly what I needed to hear. It's not that I'm tryign to get back with him, it's just that he has been playing the jealousy game with me and I wanted to get back at him for that...but I see I shouldn't lower myself to his games.
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Man. I played the jealous game and it ended up bad. I dated my ex's best friend, cause well he liked me and I was like well I wanna get over my ex(get my ex jealous). Well at first I was like aww you're so sweet and shy maybe I can manipulate you.
Later I really did fall in love with him..and I really did get over my ex. I even gave him..my first...it was so horrible when we broke up. Just trust me girl. If ur me, I thinkk learning the hard way makes you a stronger person. But learning the easier way makes you the smarter person? Get what I mean?
Well. Basically, don't play this game. Maybe it'll truly make you feel good for that present time. But you realize you just being an ass...at least you fuckin' more up than you should.
Relationships..If you can't handle them than stop. Because all I gotta say after you break up, u immediately wanna get another person..but you jsut starting the cycle all over. PM me if u don't understand or anything.
Bottom line don't do this, you'll just bring more pain in your life...
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I'm glad you took it in the spirit that I meant it. Big Hugs!