Like I really don't get it. I mean, for the first time, how do you mention it? Not that I'm planning on doing it soon (I'm 13) but if the day comes... And don't say 'you will feel it', because I need to know how you say it to the person and so on.
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How Do You In Heaven's Name Mention Sex?
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It usually just happens as opposed so saying "Hey, lets have sex!".
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Lol it true, sometimes I guess you can talk about it. Like that's what someone said to me about kissing and more.. You do what you feel is best, but hey come on, your 13 Just give it time. All the best.
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... Most of the time I bluntly ask sexual questions. I don't ask, "hey, wanna have sex with me?"... more of a "do you like it when..." kind of questions. If I get positive feedback and move on to touching then things flow naturally.
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i understand. my first time...it just happend. i mean, i didnt "feel" that it was time, i was just really horny, and i knew he was too. he is actually the only guy ive had sex with...but we still..just let it happen. basically, one says something like "i want you" or "im ready" or "hey...you...wanna..?" haha...or jsut come right out and say "hey...i think your hot, we are together...wanna do it?" BUT USE PROTECTION!
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Lol, I will use protection! xDWell, thanks for the help. But I guess that it's really my responsebilety to learn this on my own :PI'll know when the time is right, I guess xD
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You're too young now to worry about "your first time". You have your whole life, in front of you and sex is not the most important thing. Your life is! Please listen! Don't make the mistakes that I did and concentrate on your future, instead of your hormones. Quit thinking with your little head and use your big head. This is all in honesty. Sex will happen, at first, then love making will follow later. When you learn the difference, between the two, then you will understand.
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with me and my boyfriend, we had tlaked baout it first we knew that we were ready, we went to the clinic got protection... talked to our parents about it (yeh.. I know scary) then we decided one night, when we had music on and felt the time was right we just looked at each other and I flicked the light off and lcimbed into bed and we started kissing... and things just happened naturally... it was quite hilarious trying to get everything right considering none of us had done it before but we had a laugh and it was great, don't get too stressed out.
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nwiguy - I know I'm to young to worry about it, but still, I'm just so incredibly curious in this departement Chemical - Yikes, that's like to perfect (PS: Talk to your parents? I'm not able to imagine that... How old were you two?)
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Why, are you soooo curious? Are your hormones raging? Do you want to go where you've never gone before? Hasn't any adult or your school offered to talk to you? Are you into porno? Do you just want to experience the ultimate high with your perfect lady? BTW, they are ALL ladies and should be treated as such.Okay, if you want to mention sex, then just say it. Young gals your age may just give you a wierd look or may really want to talk about it. Don't push it too much! There are more important things in life than sex.