Well y'all..its been too long, really it has! But anyways..lately things have been rough.. I can't be happy it seems like, or if I am happy, its gone soon enough. I believe it all stems from a former relationship.. we broke up because it was just too hard to find time to see each other..but we still had feelings. We went on and off for a few months, and I couldn't deal with the stress anymore so I ended it. My "best friend" of course, God knows why.., felt the need to comfort her. and alas, she and him became best friends. He promised me he'd never have feelings for her..yet he did tell me he liked her..but he was over that? as of now..they don't like each other and are just very close. This drives me insane..this guy has ruined it for me with girls soo many times, but i just don't know what to do..we've been best friends for 10 years and we share every friend we have That just drives me crazy that I could like be "replaced" in a matter of days? I don't know..I can't get away from him and I can't get over this girl..my life right now is hell.. I know the first thing you'll say is: get over her, or drop him..but you know what? its not that easy..they were all I had for a while.. I erally don't know what to do, its been 2 or 3 months of just always being miserable and I am just sick of that..any ideas..any at all?..thanks in advance..Wingsta
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Can't be truly happy..
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Yeah it sucks. I'm going through what you are. Except instead of a best friend, I'm losing my ex bf whole family. Which I love and have adopted as my own. You can only move on. And he replaced me with a new gf after breaking up with me while I'm in school 3000 miles away on my birthday. Take one day at a time. Or find a reason to hate them and say your better then them. But then you end up losing a lot of friends. You can try to make new friends with people outside of your group. That way you can move away from your supposed bestfriend and your ex. Lifes a bitch but we all march on. Real happiness is not reliant on a boyfriend or girlfriend.
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i'm a;most in the same boat i'm only able to see my gf on the weekends and i'm worry its not enough time i love her and i think she feels the dame way but i dunno if i'm not putting enough time into it she s says that she doesn't mind but i but i can't wait till the summer comes so i can see her every day
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That's a tough situation. I've been there before and it really bites the big one. Luckily I was able to get my best bud to drop her. "Bros before hoes" is the driving motto all my friends and I use. I'm not sure if your buddy is willing to do that, but it's worth trying to salvage your depression. Just let your friend know how you feel about them two hanging out.
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Raven A. Aine, im almost in the same place as you. im still with my girlfriend but i swear everyday something happens so she is mad at me. if it werent for her family i would have broken up with her, but her family makes me feel loved, which my family doesnt. her grandma kisses my good bye and her mom tells me she loves me. im welcome in any of their houses if im ever in a pinch and they all said if/when i get kicked out and i dont have a place to go i can move in with them. i really love my girlfriend but she has way to many ups and downs that it drives me insane.
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wow..this place isn't what it used to be haha