I can't stop thinking about sex. I'm a teenage girl. I always masturbate..sometimes up to 5 hours a day...my old boyfriend loved this. He'd always tell me its alright. But I think its gone to the point where I rather masturbate than eat my dinner. ACH! I know. But I am really not hungry...One time I wanted to have sex so bad, that I was thinking about asking my ex to be my uhh F*** buddy. But now I think its pathetic and desperate.
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Addicted to MASTURBATION and SEX
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its just something fun to do i think we all do it lol
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Hey, I just felt led to reply to your post, and to let you know that while I'm not in agreeance with the majority of people on this site on the morality of masturbation, many people do say its alright. However, since I don't get good responses when trying to convince others of my views, I just thought I would let you know that the best way to stop an addiction like this is cold turkey. It was for me anyway, many people have different methods. The best thing to do would be to stop altogether, if its really starting to control your life. If you feel like you want to, you could always try again after you've stopped for a while and believe you have a handle on it, but I've always thought it a bad choice to go back to trying something you've gotten a handle on, as it could lead to stronger addictions than the last time you struggled with it. Regardless of whether you think masturbation is right or wrong, it is not healthy to be controlled by it to any degree, and your self-esteem even would be much higher knowing you can control your own body. As for stopping cold turkey, I realize that it's a lot harder than it sounds. I've gone through this experience myself, and it isn't an easy one. One method is to find a distraction when you're tempted. Get yourself out of the situation where you might be tempted to masturbate. If you're alone in your home, go out and be around other people. Go running around the block a couple times. Another method, though hard to come by nowadays, is accountability. Knowing that the majority of people do this, it's a safe bet thinking that some of your friends do, or have before at the very least. If you have a couple friends that you think you might be able to confide in, and would trust to discuss these things with, try forming a sort of accountability group. Meet however often you might think you need to, and talk to each other about different struggles you've had, and how you've reacted to them, and what you can do in the future. "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to humanity. God is faithful and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation He will also provide a way of escape, so that you are able to bear it." (1Co 10:13) Do what's best for your physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional strength. If you feel so strongly about quitting now that you would come here and ask for help, then your body must be telling you that there is something else it needs, something else for you. Another method to help you quit, with great resources for many addictions, is an online program (free) at http://settingcaptivesfree.com. This is a great program, and helps you to get free from addictions and includes daily lessons, an assigned mentor for assistance and encouragement, and daily accountability. I've mentored many of my own friends using this program and am glad to say that through it the majority of them have once again redeemed their sexual purity and sense of ease. If this isn't sufficient, let me know and I'll do whatever else I can for you, but this would all probably be a good start. For now, good night and good luck!Stay awake and pray, so that you won't enter into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak."(Matthew 26:41)
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i saw god and there and thats when i stop reading you fucken bible thumper
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Well, thanks for trying, Brandon...
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That was uncalled for acdc.
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I thought your post was excellent, even though I'm not Christian. Don't let it get to you. You don't have to be Christian to not want to masturbate. I try not to (sometimes urges get the better of me) since I feel that I want to save that sort of thing.
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How did it get from masterbation and sex addiction to christian rights? Anyway... masterbation doesnt hurt anyone..though it can be addicting..you just want dick and thats it...
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i think about sex alot tooits completely naturaljust try to do it less if you want too
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In reply to: ...since I don't get good responses when trying to convince others of my views... why try to convince anyone of your views? that's pretty pompous of you..... to think that your "views" are better than anyone elses and then to take those views and and try to influence young impressionable people with them. you should be ashamed of yourself.
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This is a free country, regardless of his opinion he is entitled to say what he wants, so lay off!
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hey a free country it is. also, speaking your mind is okay anytime anywhere. but convincing people to believe what you "think" is kinda pushing it. don't you think? isn't that what the protestants and the roman catholics did to the native-americans?
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hey i do agree with your advice....
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AverageJoe aren't you being a bit hypocritical too? Isn't he allowed to post his own freemind?? You're kinda telling him to shut up...Croix, feel free to talk. No one is here to tell you to shut up
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isn't that what the protestants and the roman catholics did to the native-americans?
that's crazy...i never thought of it that away.
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The reason why everyone is against your opinion, is because, quite frankly, it's absurd. It is not absurd because you have a unique opinion, but rather that you believe a novel written a long time ago to dictate what you perceive. I personally do not believe in the bible. Moreso, I think it was simply a collection of stories written by ancient authors, not a Holy book of any sort. Masturbation is a natural thing, it occurs in the animal kingdom and within human society for good reason. It is healthy up to a certain point, and I think that if this girl is concerned about going "too far" with this addiction of hers that maybe she should invest in some other receational activity that would take her mind off of sex and sexual perversions.
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The only opinion I gave in this thread was pretty much exactly the same thing you just said, focusing on other things, so I really don't see the problem here. Which opinions did you not agree with?? Stopping something useless that's taking over her life? Finding other things to occupy her time? Being around people when she has 'uncontrollable' urges or forming an accountability group? Or maybe it was me saying she's not the only one that's struggled with it, and it's been overcome before? I don't think anybody has much of a problem with what was said, and no offense is warrented to anyone, so let it go. I wasn't preaching standing on my soap box, she asked for help and I offered it.If you'd like to argue biblical authority, that's great. Start a thread for it and I'll meet you there...it's good to study what you're arguing against first though, so if you haven't read the bible, you might start there and find out exactly what you find wrong with it for yourself instead of taking what others tell you to think about religion and calling it your own opinion. There was nothing wrong with the advice that was given.
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First of all, I was refuting the whole religious aspect of your post. You don't need to include references to any biblical piece of work for any of this. And I love your opinion of masturbation itself. Useless. Well, this may sound crude, but if masturbation were useless, do you think anyone would do it? It serves a purpose, and it is only when someone becomes so enveloped in the act that it becomes a problem. As for the religious jargon, I know more about Christianity and the bible than you think. I was born a Catholic, and forced to take religious instruction grades 1-9. I've read the bible already, and along with the opinions of others I have formed my own. And you were preaching. The girl asked for help, not for excerpts from the Bible. Your intentions were good, but misplaced. That is what is wrong with your post. Keep religion out of your advice. You've already made the mistake once of saying you've tried to convince others of your beliefs, don't impose them on anyone else. And don't say you haven't, because if you didn't intend on doing so, I wouldn't be seeing:"No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to humanity. God is faithful and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation He will also provide a way of escape, so that you are able to bear it." (1Co 10:13)Floating around in your posts. As said earlier, keep your religion to yourself. No one wants to hear it.
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You seem to have the misconception that you are everyone. You are free to say that you don't want to hear what advice I have to give, but to speak for everyone saying it is unwanted is extremely ignorant on your part. I know for a fact that many have been encouraged and helped by things I have said, and I have every right to say it. If you personally don't like it, I tell you this: Skip over it as you read the post, or just don't read it altogether. Use your own freedom to ignore what you are afraid to hear. I acknowledge your opinion on what I said, but must say I don't agree with it. She asked for help, and what she wanted could be found in the place I offered it from. There was no point in bringing these accusations to this once dead thread.
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In reply to: but to speak for everyone saying it is unwanted how about you actually listen to someone instead of arguing with them...he is right. your bible posts are extremely unwanted.go here everyone and sign if you want f22 to quit with the religous crap: F22Fighter Sucks Balls