I think something might be wrong with me...I've never been in a serious relationship, but right now I'm talking to this guy that I really like. We've been talking for about 3 months, but I'm still all weird and uncomfortable around him. I feel like I cant let myself be myself around him and I don't know why. He's cute, sweet and funny, so what is my problem? I don't want to be this way because I want us to hopefully be together, but we won't be able to if I cant stop acting stupid..What can I do??
Need Relationship Advice
This is how I feel around my friends. Like I can't stop saying stupid things and I can't act the way I want to. I feel like I have to break the silences or make stupid jokes, and it all comes out wrong and without much foresight as to how it'll come across. I'm worried about running into the same problem with the girl that I'm planning on asking out as soon as I get to know her a little better, and I think that's one of my reasons for holding back and not taking the opportunities I have to talk to her (not sure what she'll think of me).
Maybe you should talk to him about how you feel. If he's anything worth putting feelings into, then he'll understand. He might even be flattered when you tell him how you feel when you are around him. Dont worry, I was the same way when I was younger. Trust me, when you make a connection with the right person, the awkwardness will fade away.