on new year's, my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with mewe had sex and everything was okay, and then the night took a turn for the worsei am heavily disgusted at how things ended up and i feel completely worthless and usedi do not know how to feel otherwise and i think that he has hurt me and ruined any possible chance for happiness in the futurei was in a state of shock, as one may say, when he broke up with me, but now it is days later and i haven't stopped cryingi tried to do things to keep myself busy, but he is constantly in my mind and the things that he said to me have been constantly replaying in my mindit is very hurtful, disrespectful, and i am the one left sufferingi don't know what to doi contemplate suicide, but i know that i would never do it. i just think it because i feel like a fool and wish to hide from the world for a whileyou know that feeling when the worst possible thing that could happen, happens? that's what i'm feelingthings are just very difficult right now and i don't know how to deal with iti fell in love and lost control of my life, and i don't know what to do to gain my confidence back, nor do i have any idea of how to trust any guy that decides to think twice about me, in the future:'(
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...on the road to depression?
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As the saying goes, love is the worst and best thing all at the same time. You're never totally in control when you're in a relationship with someone and that is something you surrender to when you fall in love.You probably feel like a peice of you is gone but that's not the truth. You may have given a peice of yourself to him when you were together, but when he left he didn't take it with him. Rather it's just lost and you need to find it. That peice is right in front you. Actually, YOU are the "it" that needs to be found.Your ex was merely a compliment of yourself, and you've always been that whole person. What it all boils down to is he doesn't complete you. You've always been complete. And as a complete person you can go on without him.Yes, you're going to think about him A LOT for a while. And it's normal to cry a lot right now. Time is always a healer yet potentially an enemy. Live one day at a time and take care of yourself. Let right now be about you. Make yourself eat healthy and delicious foods. Hit the sack early and get enough sleep. Get all your basic needs and you'll live.
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I feel your pain, i was a relationship for about 2 years with a guy that i knew for 7 years and all of a sudden, one day it's good the next day he's no longer calling me, not accepting my calls, the whole nine yards. This was about a year ago and since then i've moved out of state (not because of him), but even still i call him about once a week just hoping he'll answer so that i can get some type of an explaination or something. it still hurts because i don't know where it went wrong. The best advice i got was from my oldest sister and this is what she told me. At the time i was 20, "Your only 20 years old,chances are you'll have other long term realationships that will end too, but think about it...ppl who have been married for 20+ years get divorces. So just remember it's not the end of the world and just let it go, don't let it get you down to the point you feel you'll never love again, and it's always good to talk to someone or write a letter to your self just to release some strees". So my friend that is what i say to you. I didn't have another relationship for about a year, even though i still think about it, and it hurts a bit. I just knew i had to go on, chances are it's things in himself that he need to workout and some ppl like to get through certain things on thier own.
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You are hurting right now, and with good reason. But not because of anything that is your fault. The advice others have given above me is good and I can't improve upon it. Take care of yourself and it WILL get better with time. You sound like a wonderful young lady. Keep posting as let us know how you're doing.
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it's funny because i feel the complete opposite. i feel that he has taken me away and he still holds that part of me, if not all. i feel that he has my heart and i can't do anything about it without him. i feel that i need him, not because i am dependent on a person perse, but i am need him because i love him.my self confidence has also dropped and i feel extremely pathetic crying over him every single day, multiple times a day. i know that it hasn't been that long, but it just seems like such a terrible thing to go through, and i don't feel that i did anything to deserve it.i also feel worthless and so used because of what happened. and i cannot get that thought out of my mind, which is the worse thought ever.
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i know that i am still young, but i feel that if you feel that something is right, why don't you just go with it? i feel that he is confused and he doesn't know what he wants because he is afraid and therefore, he is pushing me away. it is a terrible feeling knowing how he truly feels, but he is too scared to admit to his feelings...i feel so rejected and unloved.
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i feel terribly lost and i really feel that i will be depressed for awhile. i know that apparently, this is a normal feeling after a break up, especially after such a long-term. and i know that it is nothing compared to marriages or 4 year relationships, but this was two years of my life with this guy, and now it is suddenly non-existent, and that is incredibly hard to cope with.
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Life's a bitch and when you finally get over him, someone else is going to come along and the process will begin again. Ask your mom and dad how many relationship they had before the found each other or the right person. Everyone i date is possible "the one" because i don't date guys just to date them and when one doesn't workout oh well oh hell. Like i said i know it hurts like hell, but you'll eventually get through it especially you have really good friends around.
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i am having a very difficult time dealing with this... all i can think about is him. everything around me reminds me of him and it is very painful inside.
i don't know what to do. i had my first thoughts of suicide last night, but i know that i can't do that because it is a selfish act, and i just can't let someone do that to me.
i know that this guy is running away from everything because he isn't talking to me and he blocked me on every contact list that we had together. he is also not calling or answering my phone calls.
it is just so hard. i feel like dying.
i don't know how much longer i can go... i thought it was supposed to get easier, but it just gets harder for me as each day passes.