Alright.. I liked this chick last year... but she was moving, so figured why go after her, she will be gone soon..... Okay.. well I kind of reliazed she didn't move and is still around... So I started talking to her again... Well.. We hugged before x-mas break (last day).. So we come back.. and we've been hanging a little more... But, last week.. I went to hug her.. She backed away.. I asked her about it later and she said she didn't know what I was doing... I figured alright.. But.. The other day I asked her a hug right before I left (to class) and she goes "no.. You get a pat today"... so I'm like WTF? She is shy... But I dont understand it. I would like to think its just because she is shy and a bit nervous about it all.. But.. I'm not sure.. I like her.. but I mean, if its not going to happen, I dont want to get to 'involved'.. I mean like emotionally and all.. So what should I do? Is it because she is a bit shy? or just she doesn't like me that, straight up?
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What does this all mean...
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She could just being playing hard to get, but then again she may not. I think you should sit down and talk to her about where you guys stand. The only way you'll ever know is to ask.
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When I tryed and she pulled away, their was alot of people around, but when she pulled the 'pat thing' their wasn't that many people. Should I just ask her like that? Just "Hey.. I like you.. Do you like me?" .. How I would like to do it, but I dont want her to freak out. Girls are confusing
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Alright. I will try that. Are chicks around 16-17 a bit inmature? I want a mature chick. I'm tired of chicks that get stupid when things get serious.. grr.. Know what Im saying? :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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Anyone, can be immature at any age! It all depends on how you connect, with that person.
I think your "friend" may not be ready , at this time, for any type of relationship. She might be more mature than you think! She, maybe is more involved with her future, grades, college or parental influences. Most young ladies are! Their future is paramount and maybe she just wants to play the field and keep her options open. Many variables here to deal with. Ladies are comlicated so don't try to figure them out. "They will do what they do despite of you!"
One thing you may try (it worked for me) is to totally ignore her. If, she really likes you, she will respond. I know that playing the game isn't right but isn't life a game?
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Haha, guys can get the same way too when things get serious. Being serious takes a lot of responsibility, it sux.