Men Can Never Be Trusted...

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I'm only 20 and I think I'm completely done with guys and dating. Every guy that I'm interested in lies, cheats and betrays. I know you all probably are thinking that something is wrong with me if these are the men I always end up with. Not true. I am one of the most honest and genuine person you would ever meet...and I still get shitted on, day in and day out. Guys cannot be faithful. They always have to be with or talking to a couple of girls at a time. They are selfish and don't care about how many women's feelings they hurt. And then guys ahve the nerve to complain that they are no good women. But a woman was a good woman before a man corrupted her. I'm a good woman. Why do I deserve to be treated the way I do??

Good men and women are asking the same question all over the world. You're not alone.

You don't deserve to be treated in any way that is disrespecful. But, and I hate to say this, maybe it is the men that you are attracted to. Maybe at first they seem nice, but then they turn into a**holes. Perhaps if you dated a friend, that you have known for a long time, things might work out.

lmao. I'd love to run a "give a friend a chance" campaign. Most guys know what it's like to get sucked into the "friend zone". \*whistles twilight zone theme\*

man that has happened to me so much. You may think it is not that bad. But when a guy like myself and you are feeling connected just by talking, and before you know it you are her friend....That is a part of a man will never grow back. I am close to saying that women are ignorant, but I know that I will regret that and I know that is not true...But i almost feel in same situation coming close to turning 20 as well.

Hey not all friends stay as friends. I usually end up dating guys designanted as my best friend. And if your just a friend then they ain't interested in you in the first place as more than a friend.

That is very true. I have to say that having friends is one of those things that can go either way... I know guys that had some female friends, and then the girl realized he was the one....My sister did that with her husband...they were friends for years and she finally realized he was the guy for her, they have been married for I think 5 years, but I think it may be around 8 years.

I dunno what other people said, because I'm too lazy of a butt hole to read. Now with my reply. I've gone through that phase where I was like UGH! MEN SUCK @$$! But after a year..maybe 6 months? you start finding interest back in men...you'll realize that just cause you've dated a couple doesn't mean the rest are like that.Its highly likely you're attracted to those type of guys that are suave or something? Maybe your dad had an affair and that concludes you to find guys like that..even though you don't really notice. Not to be mean....or anything but I always look at a problem that there's always 2 side of the story. Maybe there's something a guy thinks you're lacking or whatever. Maybe you always put out..and he has to find another sexual partner. Maybe you yell...demand too much. Maybe its the fact that the guy just doesn't feel satisfied.All i know is that. You'll wanna date again. maybe not now, but later. Every person goes through these phases. I gotta admit. Its not only men that lie cheat and betray. I use to cheat on all my boyfriends when I was in high school/middle school. I dunno why guys still dated me even though I would..uhh hang with their friends. But yea I was a bitch, now I'm in a 4 year relationship..fully committed. Hopefully I would never cheat on him..or have to resort to anything else

lol. Hell yeah man, "give the friend a chance" it's always the friends that make the best partners, I've found. Shoot, all those Molly Ringwald movies in the late 80's had truth embedded in them.

lol straight to the point.

I dont know where you got this idea that men are the scum of the earth. Don't stick to this idea. Its not true. MAybe im saying this because im a man but, i truly believe there are bad people no matter the sex. Its the person, not the sex. When you said they always have to be talking or with a bunch of girls at one time. That is untrue. Im completely satisfied just talking and being with my girlfriend. I dont need tons of girls flocking to me. Sure its flattering. Dont tell me you wouldnt be flattered if a bunch of guys (you liked) hung out n talked to you all the time.

I'm pretty torn between what I think. I mean sure guys do lie a lot to women, and tell them what they think they want to hear. That seems pretty selfish, but then again, a woman will sometimes yell at a man for being too honest if he tells the truth. I don't think men can take a woman yelling and nagging at them, so to make it stop they tell them what they want to hear. I know I've been pretty naggy before due to my intense temper, but sometimes I would just appreciate it more if a guy calmly told me the truth and apologized so I would calm down and be more understanding. Women appreciate when a man is honest because it means they're mature enough to step and take care of the issue. But then again, not all women are that understanding. You've still got those chicken hoes that ramble on and on and on. It all comes down to sex I think. I think a man lies to keep him on his woman's good side so she won't take away sex from him, and if she does he'll get it somewhere else i.e. cheating

Another thing..A guy will step all over you if you allow him to..that's something I've always said, so I never let a guy treat me like shit. I always confront him. It kind of sux because whenever a woman does stick up for herself, some guys misinterpret that as them coming across as bitches. I think real women have a strong backbone, and if a guy knows he can't fuck with you, then he won't even try.

Its the mentality you are in.Like some girls are attracted to bad guys and will always be with one.You happen to choose guys that end up lying and cheating on you.Its a matter of knowing yourself and who you really belong with.I would think

In reply to: Why do I deserve to be treated the way I do?? u don't. U haven't dated my brother have u...LMAO!! but anyways..... there are good guys out there.hell i'm too nice. my X ripped me aport and Fuck i took her back today.

yeah, you just have to meet the right people. I get a lot of complaints from girls I know saying their boyfriend is disrespectful and things like that. Then they go out and meet someone who is the same. I mean you just need to look for a different type of guy. We nice guys are here, just gotta come get us.

I know my husband flirts with other women, and finds other women attractive, but I doubt he would actually cheat on me.My husband is a good man. I've caught him in a lie or two, "Have you changed the baby’s diaper?" kind of thing, but no real lies. Being a small lie doesn’t make it less annoying, but we've all told little lies here and there. Anyone one that says they don't is lying to themselves. A guy can't shit on you unless you lye down and let him. When my hubby and I were dating he try to yell at me for something stupid and I walked of and left him standing there. If you show a guy you respect yourself he will respect you too. If you don't respect yourself how can you really expect anyone else too?

so true ilikekisses.

i think that you are looking at it wrong. my thery is that it is all based on how the person grows up me being only 12 cant say much but since i was like 8 my brother has taught me to respect woman and never cheat and if he finds out that i ever cheat i will get the living shit kicked out of me, but men who grow up seeing there fathers cheating or their fathers abusing their mothers or just wowman will probably grow up to be more dishonast and all but if you disagree with me plz contact me.

I have a friend who is sorta in your thought process. Although rather than being done with men she says shes just done with relationships cause all the men she's been with have treated her like shit or had some problem going on or cheated or whateever.However I notice when shes referring to men in general she always says she excludes me. She says that i'm not like them.??Maybe its just a friend thing. But I can safely say I've never done her wrong.