Hey, i'm 17 and my girlfriend wants me to get circumcised, so as i love her alot i'm wanting to get it done.
Just wondering if it hurts at all? and how long it's sore for. If you've have it done can you please describe the experience of what happend please as i would like to know before i get it done.
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Thinking about having it done
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are u serious? no having your foreskin cut off feels great!!! (sorry i had to be sarcastic). but im almost in the same boat as you but no ones pressuring me to get one i just prefer the look of being cut but im waiting to turn 18 and get et done. however if you want it done only beacuse she does DONT! kick her ass to the curb. if your 17 i doubt its that serious of a relationship. but i dont know. ask her if shed get some surgery too. like youll get a circ if she gets implants and a nose job. i doubt shed do it. (but if she does hey maybe u shud get it done)
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well we're engaged to get married, but she won't give me oral sex because she "doesn't like the look of an uncut cock". All i want to know really is how painful it is?
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You're 17 and engaged? That's a little young....anyways don't get cut just because your girlfriend wants you to, it's your body, if she doesn't like you because of your penis then it's not true love to begin with
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And this request is comming from an English girl? Surprising.Yeah it's going to hurt for a while. On top of it, you'll have to deal with the glans being in constant contact with clothing. Not comfortable.Ask her if her pussy is a work of art.
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My only advice to you is to read posts and experiences on the Internet from guys who got circumcised as teens or in their twenties for "look" reasons, or to please a girlfriend, or due to peer pressure. Almost ALL of them report that it was a mistake later in life, and they wish they had not done it. Its not just the pain that you'll go though during the circumcision process, but the lack of sensitivity and pleasure that your foreskin currently provides, will be PERMANENTLY gone for the rest of your life. You may be engaged, but I would certainly question whether your girlfriend truly loves you or not, if she's asking you to get circumcised. If she can't love you for the person you are AND the penis you have, then that is not true love. To test this, ask her if she will get circumcised too. Her clitoris has a sheath of skin covering it, similar to the foreskin. Removal of it is called female circumcision. Tell her it bothers you when you perform oral sex on her, and you want it cut off. See what she says. Chances are she'll tell you to get lost with that idea. You should tell her the same.
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Yes...What's fair for the goose is good for the gander, so ask your girlfriend to compromise. If she gets her bits cut off, then you might consider mutilating yourself, too. If she really, really loves you, she'll go through with it.
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Yeah i tried this last night, i pulled mre foreskin back then put my dick back in my pants it's really uncomfortable being in contact with clothing and it kinda hurts too. If i was having it done it wouldn't be for another 2 years so atleast i have time to think it over properly.
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yeah its pretty sensitive like that at first.. but it gets better.. i like the feeling now.i had to walk round really slowly when i broke my frenulum and my foreskin was always retracted. I walked like my girl had just shoved a book up my ass As far as my 2c goes, i totally agree with everyone else. Don't get cut just coz she wants it.. aesthetically there wont be much difference between a cut and uncut dick once you can retract your foreskin.
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Aww thats sweet of you but you know having your foreskin gives you 30% more pleasure because the skin acts as a second vagina kind of. But if you really wanna do this for her...nd you know you'll never regret it EVEN IF YOU BREAK UP! Uhm. It does hurt. Maybe for 2 weeks, no sex..or any sexual activity. When you pee it is extremely painful but you will get use to it.Well, if she really loves you..won't she accept your foreskin?
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well looks like i won't need to anymore, she broke the engagement off this morning :frowning:
She told me she has Hodgkins disease which is cancer, and therefore doesn't want to hurt me if she dies. She's gone away and isn't coming back. -
"Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds." William Shakespeare: Sonnet CXVIHmmm, "thinking about having it done", is there something you aren't telling us? Loving her as you do, and having contemplating mutilating your genitals on her behalf, wouldn't you insist on using your love to comfort your girlfriend in her hour of need? The "She's gone away and isn't coming back." sounds all too peculiar and convenient. A normal person in love would move mountain and earth to find her.Korydon