Extreme sexual frustration.

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Hello,I was wondering if anyone knew of a way to just eliminate sex-drive. I am a man, almost 30 years old, a virgin, and I need sex so bad that it's on my mind every day, driving me absolutely crazy. I can't even function when I'm at work.I just want to get rid of all desire... perhaps I should become a Buddha. I need to become an ascetic.Does anyone know of someone who has had success in suppressing sexual desire so as to not allow it to badger them day in and day out?Thanks,MCA

here is an answer: GO HAVE SEX. get a prostitute if you need to. but supressing a human desire is not the way to live.

but unfortunately, going out and having sex is not an option.You probably do not want to know why.I must suppress this natural human desire and there's no way around that.Any more suggestions?

Are you waiting until marriage?

No, I will never marry and I will always be a virgin.Sex for me is out of the question and it is not due to any physical defect. I am fully functional.

Why is it out of the question?

Ummm, trust me... you don't wanna know.

I guess there's no help for me then, huh? I just gotta live my life being denied this basic human need to have sex. Not only that, but I must endure the pain that goes along with that. There is no way to escape this need. Is that correct?

I'm thinking that's the way it is. I really would like to die if that is the case, though I will not commit suicide. I will just go on living in misery.

Thanks for trying to help.

MCA

well as disturbing as it may seem, if we do not know why you cannot have sex then we cannot propose a solution.

Well, if I told you why, not only would you all not want to help me, but you'd probably all hate me and want me dead.Even though I'm not a bad guy, that's just the way the world is this day and age--people cannot see beyond their preconceptions. So I've got that to contend with also.Does it really matter why? Can't you just take it as a given that I can't have sex? I just want to do away with desire. It is my only option other than suffering.Oh, by the way... that really blows that the Pack was eliminated. I wanted to see them go far.MCA

The only way to get 'rid' of the desire to have sex is to masterbate. And if you can't or won't do that, than your screwed.By the way, I think a majority of the people here don't hate or want anyone dead.

Well if you do not want to tell us, then thats you prerogative.
To quell the desire is probably impossible. Your only option is masturbation. There are quite of an assortment to sexual aids out there. Guys rave about the Fleshlight which does a very good job of simulating the feel of a vagina. I would think this is your only choice since you're keeping mum about the reason you can't have real physical sex.

And remember.. this is the internet. You are totally anonymous. You can say as you wish. Even though you may think people will hate you, perhaps someone can help.

Then suffering it shall be...Masturbation has gotten me by for the last 15 years, but it got old a quarter of the way through.I need affection... the warmth of a human body next to mine...but I cannot have that.And so the only choice is to cut out that desire which you say is not possible.So I am screwed.Thank you for trying to help... you are a caring bunch, but I am beyond help.MCA

Okay, fine. Here it is:I am exclusively attracted to boys aged 8-14There. Bring on the lynch mob. Don't worry, I am used to it.

Well you haven't had sex with a young boy, so that's good. Have you always been attracted to young boys?

Yes, ever since age 12. I thought I was just gay, but as I grew older, the age of the boys that I was attracted to remained the same, and even went slightly lower.

By the time I was 15, I realized I would never grow out of it, and I was correct.

Go get a fleshlight.

Although I think being exclusively attracted to young boys is beyond disguisting, I think it is good that you know you can't act upon those desires. If thats the only thing that stimulates you, then I'm happy that you realize that you will never have sex, ever, ever, ever!

But to answer your question, I dont think there is any way to suppress those natural human desires. Maybe you could find a consenting, young-looking homosexual male who is over 18.

Depending on where you live, a 16 year old is old enough. I still think that's a little young, you're better off with a 18 year old.

Thank you, but I'm sure a fleshlight would be good for about an hour. After that, I would be left feeling empty and hopeless, which is where I am now.I'm sure nothing can replace having an actual human being--in my case, a boy--to love.This world is so hostile to people like myself, it is assumed by most people that I will act on my desires and go out and hurt a boy.In this society, pedophile is synonymous with rapist/molester.So my life is pretty much worthless. I just want to die.MCA