Spermicide after intercourse?

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okay. so my boyfriend of two years and i were messing around and upon getting hot and heavy, i had given him a handjob, but then about a half an hour to 45 minutes later, we were doing other stuff. usually we don't insert his penis without a condom, but this time we got too caught up in the action. he didn't cum, he pulled out and we stopped after knowing what we had done, and now i'm worried if the cum from the handjob is going to get me pregnant - or the precum from this time around. when i got home, i took one of the condoms and put it on my finger, and proceeded to rub it inside me to get the spermicide all over inside to kill any sperm that may have been there.

do i have any high chances of getting pregnant? please, this will be a really nice help and put my mind at ease.

my period isn't due until 10 days from now, but i do have a pregnancy test just in case.

thx. m.

Once semen leaves a guys body out into the open its near impossible to get pregnant from that. but since you had intercourse without using a condom, there could be a tiny chance of his pre cum making you pregnant - i'm guessing he didn't cum inside you.take the test to put your mind at ease and see a doctor if you are really worried as soon as possible. i'm sure others on ths board will be able to help you as well.

it wasn't actual intercourse. he had stuck his penis inside of me, and then automatically pulled it out. almost as if he and i were both embarrassed. he didn't release any sperm at all at that point in time.

if he didn't release any sperm then the chances are small but the pull out method is not reliable. try and take that pregnancy test as soon as you can and see what the results are.

this happened today. would the pregnancy test be reliable today if i took it now?

How accurate are home pregnancy tests? Home pregnancy tests (HPTs) are very accurate. Most brands of HPTs say they are 97% to 99% accurate, but this can vary with actual use. Each brand varies in how sensitive it is in picking up the pregnancy hormone hCG. If a test is not done correctly, it will be less accurate. And, always check the package to make sure it is not past its expiration date - if it is, it will not be accurate. Most brands of HPTs tell users to do the test again in a few days, no matter what the results. If you use an HPT too early in your pregnancy, you may not have enough of the pregnancy hormone hCG in your urine to have a positive test result. Most HPTs will be accurate if you test yourself around the time your period is due (about 2 weeks after you ovulate, or release an egg from your ovary). You can get a negative test result if you are not pregnant or if you ovulated later than you thought you did. You may also have problems with the pregnancy, which affects the amount of hCG you have in your urine. If your HPT is negative, test yourself again within a few days to 1 week. If you keep getting a negative result and think you are pregnant, talk with a health care provider right away. Thats a paragraph from an online website - hope it helps you

thanks, you've been a help.

what thats saying is that if you take the test too early then you could get a false reading.make an appointment with a doctor now if it reassures you on when the best time to take the test is. don't take the test today though.

oh, i knew that. i was just thanking you for helping me out. you've eased my mind for the time being.

sorry my second reply to the cut and paste information was abit slow.you're welcome. try not to panic, speak to your boyfriend as well for support.

i've been talking to him. and he doesn't think that i'm going to be pregnant. i, in the back of my mind, know that i'm not, but there's always that "what if" you know? it's me being paranoid, i think.

its better to be cautious and its natural for you to worry. i've been in a similar situation that you have described as well and now i'm very careful.you're not being paranoid and its good that you've looked for advise and answers on it.

i know for the guy since its not them that has to worry they won't be stressing or getting worried - so i can't really know what you are feeling right now but fingers crossed for you!

do you think what i did with the condom afterwards did anything at all?

its impossible to kill all the sperm like the method you described. but if he didnt ejaculate inside you then you won't be pregnant. but there is always that tiny chance...but you did say his penis was inside you just once before he withdrew....so the chances of you being pregnant are small.

okay then. thanks again.

you're welcome. plusyou said you gave your bf a handjob 45 mins before he entered you. any sperm from the handjob would have died for sure.

whew. that's a relief. that put my mind at ease for sure. you've really helped me out. thanks a whole lot.

always happy to help.Dean

i'm sure other people will add their views on this thread so look again soon for more advise from others.