Alright.me and my boyfriend have done EVERYTHING..except for one thing..i would really like to make him orgasm from fingering his ass(i finally talked him into it)..i know the gland is under his balls...but how do i do it..like what kinds of finger motions do i use?..i would realy appreciate any help, suggestions..or whatever you can tell me about this.
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How to get a guy to orgasm from fingering his butt
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u know what... I never knew u could finger a guy's ass and make him orgazm... id hate that... but its each to there own
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has something to do w his prostrate
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I THINK YOU DO THE COME HERE MOTION WITH YOUR FINGER IVE NEVER DONE IT BUT I HEARD THATS WHAT YOU DO, YOU GET THEM REALLY TURNED ON AND THEN WHILE THEYRE IN YOU, YOU JUST STICK YOUR FINGER IN AND THEY GO TO TOWN. IM NOT SURE BUT THATS WHAT I HEARD ILL TRY IT TO NIGHT AND LET YOU KNOW H0W WELL IT WORKS OK
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haha alright. thanks. i'll look forward to hearing how it goes
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you know what... this seems gay... im sorry but it seems wrong ! i wouldn't let no one put there finers in my ass ! or anything else !!!!
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A guy's G Spot is in his ass, so no its not "gay". Just socially in the United States it has been taught to people that it is wrong but yet when two females make out and engage in some sort of sexual behaviour, it's alright in heterosexual guy's eyes. That's called a double standard.
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Amen to that sister!For a country that was built on freedom and being able to express freedom, we sure have constructed way too many by standards that constrain someone's ability to be an individual. This country has a very conservative, prudish mindset that is afraid to relax and be free except when they secretly close their bedroom doors…..
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if he'll let you use your finger, see if he'll let you use a vibrator. But as for the finger, the prostate is about 1.5" into the anus, right behind the root of the penis. It will feel kind of hard. just rub it, massaging it using the "come here" motion.Jerk him off in the same speed as you massage his prostate, when he's about to cum, the prostate will get harder. Press a little harder against it, but not too much, and speed the massaging up till he blows his load all over himself, or you.
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Yep, ShadowKitten gives good advice. :smile:
There's more info here:
http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/understanding_the_prostate.aspIt's also important that he's aroused while doing it. I'm not so sure every guy can have an orgasm from doing that thing alone, but it usually greatly enhance it if you do it *while* he's having an orgasm (from regular masturbation meanwhile or whatever).
Of course, it also goes without saying that he should've recently emptied his bowels first. Even if you shouldn't need to insert your fingers very far, he should still have done that. Finally, it can help with lubricants, he need to be relaxed and comfortable, and it doesn't actually normally get messy because that end part is usually kept quite clean by his body, sort of how a vagina isn't all bloody and messy inside when a girl isn't having her period. There can be some stuff in there, but it's usually not bad at all.
And I don't see how a GIRL doing it to a guy makes it gay.
That's the strangest thing I've heard all day. lol!
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i know if i jerk off and rub my prostate it makes it better, however, just make sure your butt is clean.
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@AGoodNugget that is definitely good advice. I would have to agree that there's nothing worst than putting in your thumb and pulling out a plumb. Butt nuggets are a sure mood changer. By the way. you might want to look at the dates on the threads your reading and might post to.. this one is about 9-10 years old I think... Have fun and keep that butt clean!
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@Roc
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@dark_rain Ya know I'm actually Gay,so what I want to kniw,is of this is SO gay,then why are you even this far in the comments...or even this article for the matter!It sounds to me someone is looking for advice hehe
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@iaki Dude.... Maybe so,, But we'll never know as the original poster of this thread posted it over 11 years ago... I doubt he's looking for assurance or suggestions. I'm sure he has already found out how to get a guy to orgasm from fingering his butt... Just saying. ya might want to verify how old the pst is before you reply.. Just saying..
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First and foremost, cut your finger nail and file them so they are smooth. Second, make sure you used a good lubricant (K Y jelly is very good and slippery, so clean up is easy and in between applications if the slipperyness seem to be wearing of do to fiction a few drops of water or a well placed lick will get thinks slippen and sliding again and can clean up very easy with just warm water and a wash cloth. Slippery is good when ya need it, but can very very
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I'm not gay at all my very, very hot wife read about this and the guy that says this is gay probable never hits his wife's g spot, and also never had a week leg,knee shaking explosive long lasting orgasm (pre-cum) or cumshot (The climax).. This is a pleasure organs that stimulates GREAT, GREAT pressure. My wife try her G -spot simulator on me although we had to straight it a litle (because males but have a front door) I edged for several minutes and BAAM, but five minutes of my life. Those who knocck it have no idea want they missng.
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It's science pure and simple. I have to believe it there for a reason, although not quite as easy to got to as a g-spot nothing this great is never easy. As mentioned approve some simple clean should be done before experimenting with this awesome, under rated gift. Some women never get good orgasms cause men just don't take the time to scientifically learn how pressure happen, that's why they put there wife on their backs and enter from the worng direction. . Yeay have
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Take in to shape of the tool, is it curved up, down ward or to one side or the other. Mine is pretty much straight forward with a downward curve, (I've heard some say "doggie style is slutty) this is not true. if you keep trying to leave you house from the back door and end up in the front yard, it's never going to happen. She lays on her stomach with access slightly elevated and back. I make sure that the Tool is slightly higher making the top of it press again
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st the highest point of the entrance (another words, the top lentch tool slide oh so awesomely along the top of the entrance and being the the base of the tool is higher, along with the awesome curve in the tool, remember the wife is on her stomach, the tool is now headed to about where the top of her pubic hairs would be on outside. Right on target for the wide swollen message (Cleverly build into the unit) to to come in contact with target G
