Wow i really have a lot to say so i apologize if this is long...When i first Came to this school , i loved it , there was me and my 3 other friends , then there was 6 of us , and then i don't know what happened really there was a huge split and now , i don't enjoy the school anymore and i am counting down days till i get out of the country. But this little rant is mainly about my best friend or so called .So she uses this thing called Orkut ( for those of you who don't know it , its like myspace/facebook), she has used it for a long time . But then these 2 new Indian girls came to our school and now my friend is obsessed because the 2 other girls are. For instance , she doesn't sit with me at lunch anymore because she wants to go to the Library so she can go on Orkut, and if she is near a computer she MUST go on Orkut. So i tried ok , i got Orkut !! just because its the only way i ever get to talk to her.So thats just point 1 . We had this thing the other night called habitat for humanity and you go and sleep in a cardboard box , and starve for 17 hours and it simulates homelessness , so me my best friend and one of the twins went . Wow did i know that 3 is a crowd , my best friend and Nikita (twin 1) met these indian guys , and they ditched me for the whole evening !! no kidding ! i saw them for maybe 20 minutes. Now i can't say i wasn't like really really hurt because i was , and i actually just lay on my cardboard and cried for around 1 hour or so ( it was dark ) so it took some complete stranger to ask if i was ok before my best friend . The cheek of it was the next day my best friend asked to use my mobile so she could call her boyfriend up in India !! I said i had no credit , which i didn't but she gave me this sort of look , and i was just kind of cross because , you know , you ditch your friend then you 1) ask for money 2) ask to use her phone and call internationally - I would feel awful if i did such a thing , would you ?!!So i have noticed her wanting to use my phone is increasing now all the time , like everday and every time i am near her its like she only comes to me to use my phone !! and even though i am topping up in the morning i will just say i have no credit because i don't want to seem bitchy.Am i being really unreasonable here ? i just really don't get whats going on with it all ! She got this boyfriend he treats her like dirt and she is such a flirt with other guys(but thats irrelevant ) , not to mention that her family is very against this and she is going behind there backs. Yet all of a sudden the two new girls suddenly know best what to do , and she tells them everything and even if i sit there i had mays well be invisible ( don't get me wrong my problem isn't with the twins they are pretty nice but ... erghhh!!!!) I just really feel like , i dont know like i am losing it !!!sighsHelp Please Torie
So She is my friend ... I guess
If I were you, I would talk to her. I'd tell her that I didn't appreciate the way she's been acting lately. If she doesn't understand, an try to change, then I'd find a new friend who actually treated you as just that.. a friend.
It sounds a lot like she's using you. -_-
(also, do you live somewhere near india or something? i mean, how could she see him i fhe lives out of the counrty?! haha)
I live in Singapore , she doesn't see him until she goes home for a short time in summer , however i think she will be moving back in this summer . Not like that will help since her mother has forbidden her to see him.