I know this is kinda weird. But i get aroused at school the same time almost everyday. and if I have a class with a hot girl in it, it will just get worst. Sometimes i'll have a boner for 30-40 minutes. One time I nearly ejaculated. Is anyone els elike this?
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Cum in pants.
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Do you masturbate? If not, I think that you should start. You seem to get turned on way too easily.
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When I was in high school, I was exactly like that. Constant erections that I had no control over. Normal for teenage guys in the middle of puberty. You'll grow out of it in a few years. Its caused by a massive increase in testosterone and other hormones that you're not used to yet. These hormones don't go down as you get older, but your brain just learns how to handle them better, and you gradually gain more control over your erections.
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I had the same problem the past two years, but this year, it only happens once every one or two days. Like you said, though, it happens at about the same time of day.
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I know this is kinda weird. But i get aroused at school the same time almost everyday. and if I have a class with a hot girl in it, it will just get worst. Sometimes i'll have a boner for 30-40 minutes. One time I nearly ejaculated. Is anyone els elike this?
Sounds rather normal to me. It was like that for me after puberty too. I got boners in class all the time, back when almost anything could get me hard. It didn't even take a hot girl, but just a long class, to get my penis going stiff. And yeah, those erections felt so good as to cause persistant boners that sometimes ooze precum. Often my boners felt like they want to ejaculate, but usually they didn't. But it would take a long time for them to subside, often long enough for them to start oozing precum.
Try not to ejaculate, as it could make an obvious, embarassing spot, that somehow seems less understandable than merely having a natural boner. But the boners are understandable for young guys having recently gone through puberty especially. Better to have a throbbing boner for a long time, than to "wet" yourself. It has to naturally subside, eventually.
I think boners aren't merely some abberation on the personal level, but more like an expected reaction to changes in culture, where unlike in the old days when people spent more time outdoors and guys could disappear, human population has increased, and we coup up members of the opposite sex in work cubicles or classrooms all day, with little privacy for much of the day. So a few erections or boners would seem to be expected, as penises will sometimes get hard, just because they are penises, and penises do that. For a class to have a hot girl is cool, and I think boners are to be ignored in a civilized society, to not needlessly intrude upon a person's virtual privacy. I would not want for God to decrease our sexual or reproductive drive, so we must needs deal with it, in a moral manner to respect our fellow humans, and accept that God designed humans to be both populous and sexual creatures. And I believe it would be good for people to marry younger, and also to use no "preventative measures" to limit family size, as more and more people would be glad to be born.
I disagree with the guy saying you need to masterbate (at home of course), as I don't think there has been any conclusive evidence as to whether it helps or not? Perhaps it may (temporarily) relieve those sexual urges, or perhaps it would excite them more? I don't see it as appropriate to make judgements as to why some guy might pop an involuntary boner, like maybe he forgot to masturbate? Maybe he has roommates or brothers, and little privacy, and no, I don't believe "everybody does it." Rather a lot of people who don't admit to masturbation perhaps do, and a lot of people probably don't anymore. And I don't believe you are too easily aroused, as half-hour boners are probably more normal for some guys, than many people may imagine. Penises arouse very easily, often from a full bladder, a long or boring class, because one has a penis, etc. The term "boner" itself seem to refer to a common phenonemon in which the penis gets bigger and stiffer than one would normally want it to be. As if a "bone" was jutting out into their pants.
I see involuntary boners, as perhaps a sign of a guy being a virgin, and having no proper outlet for sex. But what can one do? Not everybody yet knows who they should marry, in order to be able to marry younger. It could also be a sign of having new reproductive urges that they aren't yet used to. Or of course, it could be a sign that a guy has a penis. After all, penises just seem to need to get hard from time to time, even if they can't have sex just yet.
I have noticed a few other guys get erections at school, but nobody seems to pay them any mind. It happens. But it seems to become less common as guys grow older. And I have never seen anybody cum in their pants. Too messy. But I suppose it could happen. Maybe I would say something then? "Got a little too excited, eh?" Usually I wouldn't let on that I had even noticed, if I saw a fellow classmate with a hard-on. Just a little too common or normal to even talk or comment on, lest somebody say something stupid when I get a boner?