Im a female and a virgin, I have been reading alot of posts about a girs first time. I was just wondering that if I do use alot of lubrication and my boyfriend takes it slow it won't be painful?
it shouldn't be
The key is lots of foreplay, which leads to lots of your natural lubrication. If necessary, supplement with someting like Astroglide or KY, but make sure you are well lubricated before he begins to penetrate you. Then have him take it slow and gentle--don't go for complete penetration right away--work up to it. There might be a slight pain, but I am told that its goes away quickly and, if the previous informaion is followed and if you are with the right person. the pain is quickly replaced with pleasure.