I just recently started masturbating, my boyfriend suggested it, however while we were talking today he implied that he no longer does it himself. I don't want to blatently ask him, in what would probably sound like an acqusation "why don't you masturbate anymore?" But I would like to know. We have a long distance relationship and only get to see each other one or two days a month, so it's really maddening. My bf is 20 and I am 18.Could anyone give me any suggestions for bringing it up? Or anything like that?
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Boyfriend masturbating?
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Well if you're in a relationship then you should be able to just come out and ask him...it's not that big of a deal.
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I'm in a similar relationship to you, my girlfriend and I don't see each other as much as we'd like because of long distance. I've actually cut-down on masturbation since I've been seeing her, but not cut it out totally. If I'm away from her for 2 weeks, I only masturbate for the first week. It makes me hornier, more physically sensitive and able to ejaculate more when I do get to be with her and have sex.
This may not be your boyfriend's reason, in fact he may just not feel like it lately. I've gone a few weeks without it once, just didn't feel like doing it, but then I started again. -
If I'm having sex regularly, I just don't feel like it. Probably the same for him.