hi I just found out three days ago that my dad has a condom in his wallet and since he's married to my mother I'm wondering why...? I confronted my dad with it this morning and he said to me: "IT'S Not Your Business" I told my sister yesterday and she reacted like it wasn't a big deal, She said, So? Why don't u ask dad if he's been screwing around withj other women.. I'm like hellooo your supposed to be my BIG sister if anyone should deal with this or at least help me with it it should be her! So Right now I really don't know what the f*ck I should do.. Tell my mom? And risk a divorce and hurting my mom? talk to my dad again? I'm scared and I feel completely on my own with this. I have like this detonator in my hand and with one push I can ruin the family...
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Cheating father..
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looks like your sister allready knows. maybe she`s the one your father is cheating on you mom =))))) j/k
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aSk^Ghost, that wasn't helpful. It's easy to joke about something when it's someone else who is worried sick about it, but it's not the mark of a discerning person.Soul87, I think this really isn't your business. Some married couples do use condoms for contraception (though it would be rarely carried in a wallet then); but that really isn't the point. Your parents' marriage is their business, not yours, and I'm afraid it seems to me that you are being a busybody. We have enough to do looking after our own morals, rather than trying to look after those of others.Like the Ring, you have found something dangerous, and now you have to carry it around close to yourself and keep it to yourself. It is indeed lonely and scary. How much better if you had not found it!
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Uhhh he uses a condom cause he doesn't want another kid. Wow. U know. Thats what condoms are for. Your dad isn't cheating, and he doesn't want you to know because he doesn't think its appropiate to let you know his sex life. I mean seriously don't jump to conclusions. geez..how old are you?
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first of all.. if u are gonna say anything try to say someting usefull or don't speak at all.. I'm 17 and I know it's unappropriate and sjit but heej I Care about my mom and to think that the sjit she has been through and then getting deceived like that just pisses me off! And yes his sexlife is not my busines but my mom is. They have condoms in the nightstand , but what I did not understand was why it was in his wallet, obviously he's not planning to use it at home...... BUt anyway I cleared things up with my folks last night and turned out that it was innocent without going into boring details.. But hey, What if? I had all the right to react like this and it seems logic to me, someone who cares about his family.
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Married men do not carry around condoms in their wallet unless something else is going on. Soul87, perhaps he was thinking about it(cheating) and was just being prepared. You never know.
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Oops. Missed the part that you cleared things up with your parents. I'm glad things were put to rest and your mind is at ease.
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OWww god! helsman I don't even wanna think about that ewwwww and thnx a lot everybody for ur support :wink: